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Old 08-15-2014, 10:58 AM
 
Location: USA
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Its emotional cheating which usually bleeds into physical cheating. It means whoever doing the "cheating" is unhappy with the relationship for whatever reason and trying to fill that void.
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Old 08-15-2014, 10:59 AM
 
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Strange question, of course it's cheating.
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Old 08-15-2014, 11:14 AM
 
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To me it's disrespectful and inappropriate.

I think it just means we have different values and should go our separate ways.
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Old 08-15-2014, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Encino, CA
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Is phone sex/facetiming cheating? A friend and I were having a joking discussion after he ran into an old flame. We were debating whether phone sex or facetime mutual mast was cheating on your SO.

He said no because there's no physical contact.

Anyone ever done it?
I operate from the viewpoint that if its something I would not want my significant other to know about, its CHEATING.
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Old 08-15-2014, 11:35 AM
 
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A friend and I were having a joking discussion after he ran into an old flame. We were debating whether phone sex or facetime mutual mast was cheating on your SO.

He said no because there's no physical contact.

Anyone ever done it?
He should ask his SO... if she says no, it's not. If she says yes and leaves him because he asked such a question, it's not because, well... he's single again.
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Old 08-15-2014, 11:38 AM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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No I've never done it, and of course it is cheating! You don't need to have sex with someone in order to be disloyal to them. Phone sex and erotic face time with another person for what reason? That defeats the purpose of an exclusive romantic relationship. Those acts are intimate moments to me, and should be something shared with your spouse or significant other only, unless it's a job description for which you are a contracted employee getting paid a wage. Otherwise, it is highly inappropriate and sharing your romance and intimacy with someone else - cheating - and I would kick whoever does this to me to the side instantly and not think twice about it.
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Old 08-15-2014, 11:45 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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He said no because there's no physical contact.
Lol, kids these days say the silliest things.
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Old 08-15-2014, 11:49 AM
 
Location: IN>Germany>ND>OH>TX>CA>Currently NoVa and a Vacation Lake House in PA
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A friend and I were having a joking discussion after he ran into an old flame. We were debating whether phone sex or facetime mutual mast was cheating on your SO.

He said no because there's no physical contact.

Anyone ever done it?
There is absolutely no way any of us can answer if this is appropriate for you. The answer is entirely dependent upon what you and your SO deem appropriate.

No, I've never done it and never will.
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Old 08-15-2014, 12:24 PM
 
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Sex is not just physical in nature, attempting to boil it down to bare minimums and disassociate is attempting to negate the weight of its meaning and undermine your SO's place.
Very well said.
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Old 08-15-2014, 12:37 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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It's cheating
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