To men that missed out on young love... (girl, cheated, separated)
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I only experienced young infatuation which I, at the time, mistook for love. But the girls I was with didn't see me in the same way, so I never experienced a true, committed relationship until last year. This time the roles were reversed; she was certain she loved me, but I wasn't feeling it. So I ended it in early May. To recap, I feel like I missed out on young love and I'm still single and don't know what love is supposed to feel like.
Well you were lucky to at least feel infatuation. I don't think I will ever be attractive enough in time to feel that...
I work too many hours a day for that, animals are a serious commitment in terms of time. Plus, my apartment place doesn't allow pets. Maybe in a decade or so.
Well you were lucky to at least feel infatuation. I don't think I will ever be attractive enough in time to feel that...
He's saying he was infatuated. But the girls around him didn't see him as bf material. Anyone can experience unrequited infatuation. Probably most people do at some point. That's not an achievement.
He's saying he was infatuated. But the girls around him didn't see him as bf material. Anyone can experience unrequited infatuation. Probably most people do at some point. That's not an achievement.
No, it is not an achievement. But, it is an experience.
Unrequited infatuation is no achievement, it's really just a miserable waste of time. But yes, for the record, first two girlfriends thought I was just tolerable enough to date for a couple of months, but I was crazy about them. Third girlfriend was crazy about me, but no matter how hard I tried I couldn't reciprocate. None of those situations are good, and I'm not sure they're better than being single, either. Although they were good for experience, if nothing else.
P.S. I should also add that the time between girlfriend #2 and #3 was a staggering 16 years, plus a few months. So try not to be too envious of me.
Is not experiencing love at a young age really so sad?
Extremely. If you have a strong desire to experience love, say, in the teens and through the 20s, and it does not happen, yes, it can be and is devastating.
I'm single, so obviously, I have failed miserably in keeping a woman around.
Stop eating balut with bagoong.
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But yes, for the record, first two girlfriends thought I was just tolerable enough to date for a couple of months, but I was crazy about them. Third girlfriend was crazy about me, but no matter how hard I tried I couldn't reciprocate. None of those situations are good, and I'm not sure they're better than being single, either. Although they were good for experience, if nothing else.