Verbally abusive men (dating, boyfriend, girlfriends, married)
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My x- boyfriend called me a c"" t, loser , useless piece of ****, dumbass, ***** , *****, f""ing idiot, *****. Also said if people got to know me, they wouldn't like me. That I had a square ass(actually called me springbok square pants) I am by know means any of these things. A great mom, financially secure , a good person!! He would call me these things because I did not want to stay with him and his buddy at the bar after I watched his softball game and because I wanted to TWICE a year go out with my girlfriends. When we met I was legally separated, I was up front and told him why, my x owns his own business and I'm staying that way for awhile. He would scream at me about this. Even though he worked with my sis in law and said , " why is she coming up to me, we are only dating") we worked together and drove together, it was a 15 min drive. He wanted $10 a week from me. I packed our lunches everyday , and when I told him that, he said, what your useless lunches. We dated 4 years. He's 45 I'm 41. He's never been married , only 3 girlfriends , including me. He told me his mother cut out articles about how mad divorce women are and to be careful of me. I could be using him for $. We make the exact same amount. We went to the cider mill the first time I paid, which is fine but he wanted to buy his mom cider and donuts before we left. I cooked and baked things for him all the time. I ask him to make something , first thing out if his mouth is , then I can bring some to my mom. There is so much more..... Is this abuse
so this guy is yelling at you for essentially no reason, calling you all sorts of vulgar names, and seems to have serious anger issues, and you are asking if this is abuse? my question to you is, why have you stayed with him for so long? personally i would have dumped his sorry butt long ago.
All I know is if some woman called me those things you mentioned in the first sentence I would be gone so fast her head would be spinning. From the limited information he sounds like a total a hole to me. I think you can do better.
Why don't you know if this is abuse or not? Why are you with this dude at all? Or did you think it's normal to be yelled at like that? Did you think everyone lives like that?
If your health insurance covers mental health care, you should get some counseling to figure out why you allow yourself to be treated like this.
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