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Old 09-30-2014, 09:09 PM
 
Location: Pa
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He likes men.
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Old 09-30-2014, 09:13 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Men are so confusing.. do you know why men withdraw after a few great dates? There were days that he would text day and night and there were days that he would just disappear. Any clues?
It could be a variety of reasons. Boredom, frustration, lack of motivation, lack of desire, dating fatigue, something better to do, etc.

[or maybe he needs a break]
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Old 09-30-2014, 09:18 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Everyone knows withdrawal doesn't work.
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Old 09-30-2014, 09:19 PM
 
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Exactly, and we women sit around and try to figure out why he is no longer interested. Does it really matter?
x3.... but OP is a woman, can you really blame her for reaching out for emotional support?

kind of expected really, and that's why us dude luv em, cuz they are so warm, pillow soft and full of that fluffy emotional stuff us guys don't have
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Old 09-30-2014, 10:06 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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I'm a man and I do because of the reasons below


1. She said something to turn me off

2. I met someone else I like better

3. Both 1 and 2
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Old 10-01-2014, 12:58 PM
 
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I honestly do not know why some men withdraw. I sometimes withdraw. There are times when I would withdraw after a few "encounters" with women I like. Often times, I feel tired and I often get thoughts like she's getting tired of me. I'm withdrawing from a few lady friends myself.

But this is a different topic all together.

But I think people withdraw after a few dates for many different reasons. It is not necessarily something that turned them off about their date, but they just need some time off.
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