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Men are so confusing.. do you know why men withdraw after a few great dates? There were days that he would text day and night and there were days that he would just disappear. Any clues?
Ah,
1. spending time with his other women
2. he actually has a life outside of you
3. men don't want to be up under a woman all the time and need a break every so often(at least I do)
4. doesn't really like you as much as you think
So in other words it's always an inherent problem with the guy? All we have to go on is a few lines by the OP and with now way of knowing what all of this texting was about. If there was such a flurry of activity then it suddenly dies off, maybe it was something she had said rather than an emotional deficiency on his part. He more than likely has a legitimate reason for breaking of contact with someone - he has every right to what's in his best interest.
I've had women do this to me too. I've thought we hit it off after a few dates then called and got voice mail or no return call. I just figured they met someone else or weren't as interested in me as I thought and just forgot about it after a few days. Not a big deal really, it is what is is. It's not like I've known her a long time.
Last edited by david0966; 09-29-2014 at 09:54 AM..
Men are so confusing.. do you know why men withdraw after a few great dates? There were days that he would text day and night and there were days that he would just disappear. Any clues?
I think any guy who values a little independence will feel that way. In my experience, women like to get very involved in every aspect of your life, to dictating what you wear, to what you do in your free time, etc. Every aspect.
The more that occurs, the more likely the man will withdraw into just being able to be himself.
Men are so confusing.. do you know why men withdraw after a few great dates? There were days that he would text day and night and there were days that he would just disappear. Any clues?
He's a flaky, doesn't know what he wants, fear of commitment, or has other options. Possibly all of these
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Why do men withdraw?
