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She just wasnt ready back then.. But all of the sudden she was. Period
Sorry, but I'm having a hard time grasping that they converted and she wasn't baptized because "she wasn't ready". This all sounds strange that she was accepted into the church but she wasn't baptized and they were? Given the way you described her father, how would he have allowed for her not to be baptized? Just seems odd.
If any of this is true, don't get back together. Her father is not going to accept you and it will put a strain on the relationship. Relationships aren't supposed to have conditions like that and your mom said your gf can only go if her dad accepts you so she's putting a condition on the relationship as well.
Sorry, but I'm having a hard time grasping that they converted and she wasn't baptized because "she wasn't ready". This all sounds strange that she was accepted into the church but she wasn't baptized and they were? Given the way you described her father, how would he have allowed for her not to be baptized? Just seems odd.
If any of this is true, don't get back together. Her father is not going to accept you and it will put a strain on the relationship. Relationships aren't supposed to have conditions like that and you mom said your gf can only go if her dad accepts you so she's putting a condition on the relationship as well.
No my mom put a condition on the vacation that was going to happen, not the relationship.
Memorize this very important rule: If you spend your life letting other people make your decisions, you're doomed for a miserable life. No one should make so personal a choice for you or try and bully you into doing it yourself.
People who value religion over character, or worse, commingle the two, are scary and to be avoided at all costs.
No my mom put a condition on the vacation that was going to happen, not the relationship.
It becomes a condition with the relationship also if you think about it, not just the vacation. Now your gf will be upset that your mom won't let her go. All of that puts a strain on the relationship.
Too much drama, and you probably aint even get'n any. Move on. Find yourself another "perfect girl".
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