11 Reasons Why Men Never Pick The Good Girl (dating, married, women)
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I've always been the good girl kind of guy. Party girls, drama queens, b*tchy girls, hard to get girls, etc. never did it for me. After the physical beauty what attracts me to girls is how I feel when I'm around her. Is she affectionate? Warm? Does she make me feel like a man or am I having to prove that I am man enough for her constantly?
So all in all I disagree with what this article writes as it pertains to me. I am curious how the other men feel about the article and what the women think of it as well.
1. Men conflate “bad” with sexy.
True. 2. Men are gamblers, risk takers.
I am socially and fiscally conservative, so this is not me. I do take calculated financial risks because I am an entrepreneur. 3. Bad girls are usually better in bed.
Been with two women, both good girls so I wouldn't know but it is probably true. 4. Although emotional pain sucks, men kind of like it.
Not for me. 5. Good girls can come off bland.
I will take bland but affectionate and caring over a spicy b*tch any day. 6. Men like women they have a difficult time figuring out.
No, I like women that I can figure out. Hate head games. 7. Most men aren’t looking for a woman and thinking, “I wonder if she will make a good mother.”
I'm not looking for a mom for me, but for my future kids yes. If I am thinking short term I am not thinking this, any LTR I am thinking this. 8. Having a relationship on the verge of shattering, excites us.
Hell no. 9. Men like the uncertainty.
Hell no. 10. Men love danger – at least as a concept.
Again I am socially and fiscally conservative. While I like some spontaneity I stay away from stupid reckless mistakes. 11. We feel like good is easy to get – but, of course, we’re wrong.
If a good girl is worth having she is worth getting.
I don't know any men these days who like crazy unless they are crazier. Yes, "bad girls" might equate to "easy sex" for a lot of guys, but that's as far as they're taking that relationship and they know it up front.
Good girls who don't get picked should learn that they don't want to be picked by the guys who don't pick good girls. Actually not even by some of the guys who do, but she should certainly realize she missed a bullet when a guy overlooks her because she's a "good girl."
I've always been the good girl kind of guy. Party girls, drama queens, b*tchy girls, hard to get girls, etc. never did it for me. After the physical beauty what attracts me to girls is how I feel when I'm around her. Is she affectionate? Warm? Does she make me feel like a man or am I having to prove that I am man enough for her constantly?
So all in all I disagree with what this article writes as it pertains to me. I am curious how the other men feel about the article and what the women think of it as well.
1. Men conflate “bad” with sexy.
True.
Good thread, man. A real relief from all the bogus OP's proliferating lately.
Men conflate "bad" with sexy. But "bad" girls =/= good sex, necessarily. Easy sex, definitely. But not necessarily good sex. The "good" girls tend to be full of surprises. And since they're generally more into their dude than the "bad" girls, who tend to be all about themselves, the sex, and everything else, is better.
I didn't read the article, but based on your post, it sounds like another pile of stereotypical crap. It actually sounds like one of those "women like bad boys" screeds with the genders switched out.
I didn't read the article, but based on your post, it sounds like another pile of stereotypical crap. It actually sounds like one of those "women like bad boys" screeds with the genders switched out.
Airheadedness, nothing more. Pay it no mind.
This summed it up well.
Seriously, you can't lump all men together.
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A real relief from all the bogus OP's proliferating lately.
And since they're generally more into their dude than the "bad" girls, who tend to be all about themselves, the sex, and everything else, is better. 
