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I don't know any men these days who like crazy unless they are crazier. Yes, "bad girls" might equate to "easy sex" for a lot of guys, but that's as far as they're taking that relationship and they know it up front.
It's too bad they bring so many messed up kids into the world in the process.
It's just like when guys say women never pick the good guy too. Goes both ways. A decent guy with his life together is NOT going to go for a bad girl unless he has mental issues. If we define a good girl as being faithful, treats him well, doesn't have drama, doesn't spend his money, treats his family and friends with respect...shouldn't that be what guys want? Yet I've known guys who put up with all sorts of crap from women who treated them like dirt. Doesn't make sense to me.
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It's just like when guys say women never pick the good guy too. Goes both ways. A decent guy with his life together is NOT going to go for a bad girl unless he has mental issues. If we define a good girl as being faithful, treats him well, doesn't have drama, doesn't spend his money, treats his family and friends with respect...shouldn't that be what guys want? Yet I've known guys who put up with all sorts of crap from women who treated them like dirt. Doesn't make sense to me.
People do want that, but that isn't what is often called a "good girl", there may be elements of that, but it often includes things like she is non very spontaneous, doesn't really take chances, doesn't cut loose and party even from time to time, they've lived a very safe and protected / low key life. In other words, a rather nice, pleasant, kind, boring person.
It's not an issue of wanting the "bad boy" or the "bad girl". The secret most people need to understand is, whoever cares less in a relationship ultimately controls the relationship.
Bad Boys and Bad Girls usually carry the attitude of being the one who others have to submit to, thus caring more about themselves. People in general (women especially) usually will go for the one who appears more confident in themselves. Bad Boys/Girls usually display this trait, even if its not real, they're better at faking it.
Every time I watch Love and Hip Hop and look at some of those drop dead gorgeous women, but downright crazy and are brutal to other people and their feelings, I think I can do without that drama.
Many guys date and marry the good girl but sleep with the bad girl on the side. Women do the same thing as well, date and marry the nice guy and bang the bad boy on the side
Many guys date and marry the good girl but sleep with the bad girl on the side. Women do the same thing as well, date and marry the nice guy and bang the bad boy on the side
I would like to know what exactly is a nice girl and what exactly is a.bad girl.
I think, stereotypically, the bad girl is the "slooty", alpha *****, wild type that guys love to sleep & party with. And the good girl is the more old-fashioned "lady-like" one that guys would marry-but some marry her and keep a side dish.
But, as Timberline stated, Good Girl can be another name for boring, dull, submissive, etc. No fun at all.
For example, I was a poll online with Ginger and Maryann from Gilligan's Island. Which want did guys want. And almost all of them said they'd sleep with Ginger and marry Maryann
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