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Old 10-13-2014, 05:58 PM
 
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Move out and find a female roommate, or tell this guy that you're not into being used for sex, unless of course you don't mind.
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Old 10-13-2014, 05:59 PM
 
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why would not it be true on the first place?

I did not know that I was used. He told me he likes me and he loves spending time with me. what should I understand from these words? Apparently I could not have thought that he lies or does not mean all these. How would I know that there is ex or anything else
OK, so what are you going to do now? What will you do the next time he flirts with you? Are you going to talk to him about this?
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Old 10-13-2014, 06:01 PM
 
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Go back to Turkey!
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Old 10-13-2014, 06:04 PM
 
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OK, so what are you going to do now? What will you do the next time he flirts with you? Are you going to talk to him about this?
of course I will.
i am just waiting for him to suggest to cuddle and stuff, and then I will tell him "no man, it wont work ". 'cos if i say him that out of sudden he might tell "i m not suggestin anythin anymore. why did u open this topic". so I am just waiting so far
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Old 10-13-2014, 06:54 PM
 
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of course I will.
i am just waiting for him to suggest to cuddle and stuff, and then I will tell him "no man, it wont work ". 'cos if i say him that out of sudden he might tell "i m not suggestin anythin anymore. why did u open this topic". so I am just waiting so far
Sounds good. In the future, give yourself time to get to know people before you trust them.
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Old 10-13-2014, 07:48 PM
 
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Hi all,

I moved to US 4 months ago. I am renting a combo with a guy, who lived in there for a year already. He is from US, I am from Turkey. So the thing is he says he likes me,that I am pretty and etc., we cuddle a lot, kiss and etc. However he has his ex girlfriend and they do still keep in touch. Once per week he goes to her place and spends the night with her. When I asked him if they are in a relationship he said :"no, I dont have a gf. She does whatever she wants, I do whatever I wanna". Yet he keeps flirting with me and etc. So I do not know what I should do and what should I think, I like him a lot. But he doesnt say anything about us ...Moreover, I got home yesterday and they were both lying on the floor and cuddling and etc. (she was drunk tho, so was him). I was not surprised, but felt embarrased...
I dunno what should I think or do...I definitely should talk to him, but yet can not figure out if what he is doing is normal...or I get all wrong
Sadece iki ay boyunca abd olduysan, benim tavsiyem size çalışmalarda, sizin kariyerine konsantre ve Amerikalı erkekler etrafında lanet başlamadan önce kendinize bir zaman uyum süreci izin olurdu!
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Old 10-13-2014, 08:06 PM
 
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Sadece iki ay boyunca abd olduysan, benim tavsiyem size çalışmalarda, sizin kariyerine konsantre ve Amerikalı erkekler etrafında lanet başlamadan önce kendinize bir zaman uyum süreci izin olurdu!
If the United States is only for two months, my advice to you at work, concentrate on your career and yourself before you start f***ing around American men harmonization process would have allowed a time!


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No foreign language posts allowed, sicks.
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Old 10-13-2014, 08:33 PM
 
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Sadece iki ay boyunca abd olduysan, benim tavsiyem size çalışmalarda, sizin kariyerine konsantre ve Amerikalı erkekler etrafında lanet başlamadan önce kendinize bir zaman uyum süreci izin olurdu!
I will take that into account. thanks a lot!
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Old 10-13-2014, 08:35 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area, aka, Liberal Mecca/wherever DoD sends me to
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Hi all,

I moved to US 4 months ago. I am renting a combo with a guy, who lived in there for a year already. He is from US, I am from Turkey. So the thing is he says he likes me,that I am pretty and etc., we cuddle a lot, kiss and etc. However he has his ex girlfriend and they do still keep in touch. Once per week he goes to her place and spends the night with her. When I asked him if they are in a relationship he said :"no, I dont have a gf. She does whatever she wants, I do whatever I wanna". Yet he keeps flirting with me and etc. So I do not know what I should do and what should I think, I like him a lot. But he doesnt say anything about us ...Moreover, I got home yesterday and they were both lying on the floor and cuddling and etc. (she was drunk tho, so was him). I was not surprised, but felt embarrased...
I dunno what should I think or do...I definitely should talk to him, but yet can not figure out if what he is doing is normal...or I get all wrong
he's trying to play around. avoid if you want a serious relationship. if you want a hit and run, he's perfect.
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Old 10-13-2014, 08:39 PM
 
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he's trying to play around. avoid if you want a serious relationship. if you want a hit and run, he's perfect.
I wanna have serious relationship, no hit and runs. that is why I am complaining
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