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So I met a guy via OLD and we went on our first date on 12/1. We went on our 2nd date to the movies and dinner a few days later. We haven't been out since. However, he'll text me asking how I'm doing and we did have a date set up, but his brother came to town before flying out of the country. I know it's the holidays and very hectic, but I'm concerned about how things are going. I'm definitely interested in him. He called me today from work just to check up and he has flirted via text. He's a good looking guy imo and a gentleman. I feel like we get along well, but I don't know if he's interested in dating me. Granted, we're both looking for ltr, so I'm not looking to rush things. I haven't talked about to him because I feel like it's too soon. At the same time, I don't want to be friendzoned.
Ask him (if he calls, or initiate a call yourself) if he'll have time to get together before the holidays. Just say you know it's getting into a busy time, but you'd like to squeeze in a visit, since you haven't seen him in awhile.
We just spoke today. I forgot to ask him! I got kinda got caught up in our conversation about how we would spent lottery money if we won mega millions or whatever it was lol. I do want to go to dinner Friday evening, but he may be driving home. My flight leaves Saturday morning
We just spoke today. I forgot to ask him! I got kinda got caught up in our conversation about how we would spent lottery money if we won mega millions or whatever it was lol. I do want to go to dinner Friday evening, but he may be driving home. My flight leaves Saturday morning
Call or text him: "Can U do dinner Friday? Would B great 2 C U B4 depart 4 Xmas". Seems reasonable. Go for it! (One way to find out if he's just stringing you along, or if he really is into you.)
We just spoke 2 hours ago. I don't want to be a pest
Go with your gut feeling.
This relationship is new. And take this vacation/holiday to get away from it for a little bit. Trust me. Don't press him. Don't make it seem like you care so much. It is the holiday season. Let's him do his things, you do your things. If he misses you, he will text/call.
Hmm...learn from someone who just made a move on a guy, okay? Granted the move was more friendly than romantic, trust me on this. Give yourself until after the holiday, then you can text all you want, how does that sound? You have good excuse then too. It's the New Year!
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