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Old 11-04-2014, 02:01 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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All things being equal, I would choose the first one.

"Busy moneymaker" and "caring and compassionate" are not mutually exclusive.
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Old 11-04-2014, 02:05 PM
 
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Who is ever in the situation where they have those choices. What a lame thread.
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Old 11-04-2014, 02:26 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles
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Who is ever in the situation where they have those choices. What a lame thread.
Just because you never ran into this situation, doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
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Old 11-04-2014, 02:35 PM
 
Location: Earth
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The parents is a deal-breaker. Unless the parents are sick, but the OP didn't say that, just because it's their culture was it.

Living with parents isn't bad in itself, I personally just don't like a crowded house.....but I may be projecting real life now, where I am in a crowded house, and hate it. lol I don't even want kids. Just me, or me and a SO is fine though.
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Old 11-04-2014, 02:55 PM
 
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You have great chemistry with both.
One is in a corp. management position, making well over 6 figure, but flies a lot and work long hours.
With corp. expenses allowance can fly you within the states and stay in 5 stars hotels and dine in upscale restaurant.

The other one make 50-60k, 8-5 job. Can spend time with you, take you out to fine dining 2-3 times a month. But still lives with the elderly parents, not because of financial reason, more of an obligation and culture in their race.

Both love and adore you, which one would you pick.
it depends on the personality of each women. the one with the better personality is the one i would go after.
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Old 11-04-2014, 03:04 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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We have these threads time and time again, and yet now one mentions love. Incredible.
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Old 11-04-2014, 03:06 PM
 
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We have these threads time and time again, and yet now one mentions love. Incredible.
I always just assumed love is already in the equation.

I would pick the first one, all other things equal.

I value my time and I don't need or want to spend every waking day with someone.
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Old 11-04-2014, 03:07 PM
 
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The one with the biggest breasts.
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Old 11-04-2014, 04:22 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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You have great chemistry with both.
One is in a corp. management position, making well over 6 figure, but flies a lot and work long hours.
With corp. expenses allowance can fly you within the states and stay in 5 stars hotels and dine in upscale restaurant.

The other one make 50-60k, 8-5 job. Can spend time with you, take you out to fine dining 2-3 times a month. But still lives with the elderly parents, not because of financial reason, more of an obligation and culture in their race.

Both love and adore you, which one would you pick.
The one that I loved, the heck with what he did for a living
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Old 11-04-2014, 04:58 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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We have these threads time and time again, and yet now one mentions love. Incredible.
This sounds like a preliminary situation BEFORE love has had a chance to develop with either party. Personally, I'd go with number one because as a career oriented person, I'd have no problem with her busy lifestyle especially with the perks mixed in.
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