Silence after 6 dates (dating, guys, love, personality)
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I've been posting since I started dating this guy.
Basically, he's someone I met 1 year ago on Match and went out twice with. But as that time I wasn't emotionally ready so I politely let him know, and we cut out connection.
I contacted him over a month ago and he's still available so we started going out again. He seem to be very nice and sweet.
On 6th date, I stayed over his place and we tried to have sex. But his buddy quit on him every time he tried.
After the date. He never contacted me, so I took the initiative and texted him. He texted back then I asked him if he still want to do something this weekend. He never texted me back again! Just like that!
I feel really hurt. I would be ok if he would just say, sorry I don't think this is working, rather than go silence on me. I feel humiliated and disrespected. After dating over a month, I deserve a clear answer. I gave him a clear rejection after only 2 dates. And I thought he's a guy that had some class!
I've been posting since I started dating this guy.
Basically, he's someone I met 1 year ago on Match and went out twice with. But as that time I wasn't emotionally ready so I politely let him know, and we cut out connection.
I contacted him over a month ago and he's still available so we started going out again. He seem to be very nice and sweet.
On 6th date, I stayed over his place and we tried to have sex. But his buddy quit on him every time he tried.
After the date. He never contacted me, so I took the initiative and texted him. He texted back then I asked him if he still want to do something this weekend. He never texted me back again! Just like that!
I feel really hurt. I would be ok if he would just say, sorry I don't think this is working, rather than go silence on me. I feel humiliated and disrespected. After dating over a month, I deserve a clear answer. I gave him a clear rejection after only 2 dates. And I thought he's a guy that had some class!
I already told you this on one of your other threads, but it is apparently necessary for you to hear again...
WHY ARE YOU TAKING THIS PERSONALLY??
The dude has some kind of issue. Don't try to own someone else's problem. Love yourself better than that.
On 6th date, I stayed over his place and we tried to have sex. But his buddy quit on him every time he tried. !
Perhaps he is embarrassed? It is not you. Like loves said, don't take it personally. Seriously, this is no big deal. He shouldn't have taken it personally either. You guys should both move on and forget about this.
Perhaps he is embarrassed? It is not you. Like loves said, don't take it personally. Seriously, this is no big deal. He shouldn't have taken it personally either. You guys should both move on and forget about this.
best of luck.
I thought about him being embarrassed, that's why I took the initiative and ask for a date but he completely ignored me. How rude! I don't deserve this ((
I thought about him being embarrassed, that's why I took the initiative and ask for a date but he completely ignored me. How rude! I don't deserve this ((
aww. He is embarrassed.
You know when my aunt lost her two boobs (breast cancer), she didn't want any of us to look at her and would throw tantrum. I think it could be the same feeling with your male friend.
Nothing to do with you, sweetie. You are still hot. Just forget about this person, give him some time, and things will go back to normal for you.
After dating over a month, I deserve a clear answer. I gave him a clear rejection after only 2 dates. And I thought he's a guy that had some class!
umm, okay, so his d*ck didn't work out with you, and just so i can understand your request better, are you now wanting him to verbalize something to that effect too?
Some people just shut down when hurt and humiliated, by any reason. Perhaps he doesn't feel the connection with you. It's not you it's him. You are a class act on yourself since you are givin' the guy a chance and he doesn't want to take it...it's his loss not yours.
Yes OP I think there has to be some class involved and communicate your feelings, but some people (due to several reasons, personality traits) are like that guy: evasive, silent, passive agressive so to speak.
I know your having an emotional response, but try not to. This is all about him and really not about you at all. He is hiding from himself, and not from you. Sounds like he has some deeper issues too, considering the past where you two stopped seeing each other a while back and picked it up again.
Be confident in yourself!
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I don't deserve this 
