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I thought it would be harder to find a third person than convincing my partner so I thought I would guarantee another woman was interested before bringing up the idea to her.
I think this is a very dumb move in my opinion. You cant just walk away from the woman you trusted enough to have a baby with. You've got to be kidding me.
The whole threesome mantra was bad, i agree but the relationship is still salvageable. Let the Mrs know that you were thinking with the head in your knickers and lost track of what was/is important for a moment. You very much want to remain in the marriage and will work harder to earn back her trust.
Community/office tail is overrated. You dont want to throw away what could potentially be a good future with the mother of your child(ren) for some quick fix. Think with your big head dude....
Talk to her while she is still trying to process what you've done. She carried your baby so she must love you on some level and quite frankly that stuff doesnt just wear off.
Best of luck (that is if you are looking to keep your family intact) else....just skip my post!!!!
I think this is a very dumb move in my opinion. You cant just walk away from the woman you trusted enough to have a baby with. You've got to be kidding me.
The whole threesome mantra was bad, i agree but the relationship is still salvageable. Let the Mrs know that you were thinking with the head in your knickers and lost track of what was/is important for a moment. You very much want to remain in the marriage and will work harder to earn back her trust.
Community/office tail is overrated. You dont want to throw away what could potentially be a good future with the mother of your child(ren) for some quick fix. Think with your big head dude....
Talk to her while she is still trying to process what you've done. She carried your baby so she must love you on some level and quite frankly that stuff doesnt just wear off.
Best of luck (that is if you are looking to keep your family intact) else....just skip my post!!!!
I have a feeling the split was her idea. I'm not sure that I could salvage the relationship if my husband was that big of an a##. Plus, he never seemed to see that he did anything wrong in the first place.
I have a feeling the split was her idea. I'm not sure that I could salvage the relationship if my husband was that big of an a##. Plus, he never seemed to see that he did anything wrong in the first place.
Come on, im sure you've made some decisions at some point in life that you are not very proud of.
Getting adjusted to child birth is a struggle for a lot of men. Especially if you were not mentally prepared for it. Even though i cant relate to this CMB fella, i sometimes found myself on the outside.... i dont have breast milk flowing from my chest so i couldnt feed the baby, baby needs mom mostly for everything...so ones contribution was laundry, cooking and diaper changing etc...for a rookie and someone thats not prepared for it, takes a toll.... He clearly was looking for attention else where and believe me, that seems to be the period when all the women in heat approach men. If you are not mentally strong, forget it.
I am attributing this juvenile behavior to sexual frustration; thats the only thing that makes sense to me. I understand his wife is very upset, hurt and disappointed in his poor decision and thought process in general but that by no means, indicates that a break up is the best move.
Theres a child in the picture and he (CMB) needs to think long and hard (no pun intended) whether sleeping around with an office **** is really the best move. I'm sure he regrets what has transpired and will take it back if he could. I say he should try to work things out with her.
@OP - Stop attention whoring at the office and focus on earning your keep. Hope this is a lesson learned. Imagine straining relationship with your family over an office ****... you need to wake the eff up NOW!!! Goodness...
Come on, im sure you've made some decisions at some point in life that you are not very proud of.
Getting adjusted to child birth is a struggle for a lot of men. Especially if you were not mentally prepared for it. Even though i cant relate to this CMB fella, i sometimes found myself on the outside.... i dont have breast milk flowing from my chest so i couldnt feed the baby, baby needs mom mostly for everything...so ones contribution was laundry, cooking and diaper changing etc...for a rookie and someone thats not prepared for it, takes a toll.... He clearly was looking for attention else where and believe me, that seems to be the period when all the women in heat approach men. If you are not mentally strong, forget it.
I am attributing this juvenile behavior to sexual frustration; thats the only thing that makes sense to me. I understand his wife is very upset, hurt and disappointed in his poor decision and thought process in general but that by no means, indicates that a break up is the best move.
Theres a child in the picture and he (CMB) needs to think long and hard (no pun intended) whether sleeping around with an office **** is really the best move. I'm sure he regrets what has transpired and will take it back if he could. I say he should try to work things out with her.
@OP - Stop attention whoring at the office and focus on earning your keep. Hope this is a lesson learned. Imagine straining relationship with your family over an office ****... you need to wake the eff up NOW!!! Goodness...
The bolded is the part I'm not so sure about. He still doesn't appear to believe he did anything wrong.
My partner and I have been together for 6 years and we have a 1 year old son. Things are not so good when it comes to sex since the baby was born, which is natural. She's more worried, more tired and I understand all of that.
So to spice things up, I approached a female colleague at work regarding a threesome. I know she's very frisky and would go along with it. She immediately said that she was up for it.
So I thought we could leave our son with the grandparents for the weekend so we could have fun all the 3 of us.
When I told my partner about it, she went mad. She said she couldn't believe I was suggesting such a thing, that I have no respect for her and that it's a disgusting idea. Then I told her that if she preferred we could have an escort instead of a woman I know if she feels more comfortable. She said she just couldn't recognise me and that went away.
We haven't spoken in these past few days. I've tried to speak with her again but she avoids me.
I mean, I thought it was a good idea to improve things in bed. I couldn't imagine she would be so prudish. I've tried this with a previous girlfriend and it didn't change a thing.
What should I do?
REALLY??? You discussing this with colleague at work before even asking your partner? WOW! Your a real piece of work...... No you have no respect for your partner or yourself and your child, you lack tack and good judgment ..I hope she send you a packing..... Ugh!
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