Have you ever told your SO how you lost your virginity? (married, guy)
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As someone who's still a virgin I was hoping to hide it the first time I have sex. I mean why make things awkward (especially since I'm way past the age where being a virgin is normal)? But I was wondering if you eventually start having a relationship with somebody, is this something I would have to talk about? Have you and your SO ever talked about how you lost your virginity? Or has it simply never come up?
You may want to tell your partner or it could end up waaaay more awkward than if you do not. For example what if you bleed your fist time? Or it's too painful and you have to stop? If you're a guy what if you ejaculate prematurely? I think your partner would be a lot more understanding, should one of the aforementioned scenarios occur, knowing it's your first time. And if you don't feel comfortable enough with your partner to reveal that you're a virgin then is this even someone you should be sleeping with? If you two are in a trusting relationship then there should be no need to fear your partner judging you for something that is perfectly normal. Don't believe all the hype not everyone is as sex crazed as the media would have you believe.
As someone who's still a virgin I was hoping to hide it the first time I have sex. I mean why make things awkward (especially since I'm way past the age where being a virgin is normal)? But I was wondering if you eventually start having a relationship with somebody, is this something I would have to talk about? Have you and your SO ever talked about how you lost your virginity? Or has it simply never come up?
No, it doesn't come up. No one cares. You wouldn't ask that of your partner/s, would you?
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