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I was out in public at a place weres theres restaurants at 6 pm. This guy (coworker) came to me ask me whats up, walk around me as I order food and look at a book I was reading. He ask me about my holidays then ask if I already eaten (he was heading to a restaurant), and I said yeah... in a pissy voice he said ,"Byyyee" and didnt look at me and walk off.
Tell me what the heck was going through his mind. He look like crap today (usually very handsome), and hes usually very sweet... but its like he was upset I said I already ate. Would you consider him my friend still or did I just made him hate me. He talk in a much lower voice too.
I was out in public at a place weres theres restaurants at 6 pm. This guy (coworker) came to me ask me whats up, walk around me as I order food and look at a book I was reading. He ask me about my holidays then ask if I already eaten (he was heading to a restaurant), and I said yeah... in a pissy voice he said ,"Byyyee" and didnt look at me and walk off.
Tell me what the heck was going through his mind. He look like crap today (usually very handsome), and hes usually very sweet... but its like he was upset I said I already ate. Would you consider him my friend still or did I just made him hate me. He talk in a much lower voice too.
Thanks
Sounds like you're assuming, basing your thoughts on a visual and a word without the knowledge of what's behind them or what sort of day/week/month/life he's having.
He wasn't upset that you already ate. He was upset because you were a snot to him for no reason.
Can't people put two and two together anymore? Or are you so self absorbed you truly believe he's the one with the problem?
I just said.. "I already eaten".
I was ordering a donut. I did carry small talk with him... he acted out of character. Maybe hes sick of me beating around the bush... because he does all the flirting and niceness and Im usually cold biotch towards him.
He wasn't upset that you already ate. He was upset because you were a snot to him for no reason.
Can't people put two and two together anymore? Or are you so self absorbed you truly believe he's the one with the problem?
^^this^^
you were ordering food, but you told him you have already eaten. he was interested in you, and you blew him off, for what ever reason. in the end you hurt his feelings by dismissing him out of hand. now perhaps that was not your intent, and if it wasnt, you need to go talk to him and smooth things over with him. but before you do that, you need to think back about the situation, and think about what you did, and why you did it. for instance were you in a bad mood? did you have a bad day? did you just take out your frustrations on the guy asking innocent questions? or does the guy tend to bother you on a regular basis?
without knowing the normal personal interactions that happen between you two regularly, and without knowing the setting at the time of the incident, that is the best advice i can give you.
It makes sense. I made the mistake because I have a huge crush on him.... and i dont want him to know it. Im so rude to him at times... like ill ignore him at parties he takes me too... then act really nice then ignore him... and hes always nice and friendly to me.
I know one thing he was upset I rejected him... so I can only make him feel sorry for me tomorrow.... ill come up with a bogus reason why I was rude like i had a rough night. Hell be... "its okay... you werent rude at all."
Then Ill say, "you seem tired yesterday is everything okay?"
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