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Old 12-28-2014, 07:56 AM
 
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I was out in public at a place weres theres restaurants at 6 pm.
That's odd. What is this place that has restaurants at 6 pm? Most places I know of don't have restaurants until 7. If at all.
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Old 12-28-2014, 08:05 AM
 
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That's odd. What is this place that has restaurants at 6 pm? Most places I know of don't have restaurants until 7. If at all.
A big hotel.
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Old 12-28-2014, 08:05 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I was out in public at a place weres theres restaurants at 6 pm. This guy (coworker) came to me ask me whats up, walk around me as I order food and look at a book I was reading. He ask me about my holidays then ask if I already eaten (he was heading to a restaurant), and I said yeah... in a pissy voice he said ,"Byyyee" and didnt look at me and walk off.

Tell me what the heck was going through his mind. He look like crap today (usually very handsome), and hes usually very sweet... but its like he was upset I said I already ate. Would you consider him my friend still or did I just made him hate me. He talk in a much lower voice too.


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Read this post again, it's the definition of a b*tch.
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Old 12-28-2014, 08:18 AM
 
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Read this post again, it's the definition of a b*tch.
Oh gawd. i got to apologize to him tomorrow.

He probably was having a rough day and just wanted a friend. He was being sweet and he really wanted to eat with me. Because he was interested in what i had to say....

If I dont see him tomorrow im sending him a text.
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Old 12-28-2014, 08:22 AM
 
Location: DFW
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Read this post again, it's the definition of a b*tch.
Agreed. I'd bet the guy walked away saying exactly that.
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Old 12-28-2014, 08:23 AM
 
Location: DFW
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Oh gawd. i got to apologize to him tomorrow.

He probably was having a rough day and just wanted a friend. He was being sweet and he really wanted to eat with me. Because he was interested in what i had to say....

If I dont see him tomorrow im sending him a text.
So why were you rude to him ?

Don't you show people affection that you like?
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Old 12-28-2014, 08:30 AM
 
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I just said.. "I already eaten".

I was ordering a donut. I did carry small talk with him... he acted out of character. Maybe hes sick of me beating around the bush... because he does all the flirting and niceness and Im usually cold biotch towards him.
Time to grow up, young lady. The time is now to stop being a "cold biotch" to someone you're interested in. What are you trying to accomplish by acting that way?
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Old 12-28-2014, 08:30 AM
 
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So why were you rude to him ?

Don't you show people affection that you like?

No.... i dont want him to know i like him a lot (love him for a moment). But I dont want to flirt with him because he has a wife. And i know he likes me or.... liked me a lot at one point.

If he didnt have a wife... ill be flirting like mad but because he does and the fact that hes like on my mind way more than he should be... I give him the cold shoulder.... but I secretly want him to tell me likes me.
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Old 12-28-2014, 08:32 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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No.... i dont want him to know i like him a lot (love him for a moment). But I dont want to flirt with him because he has a wife. And i know he likes me or.... liked me a lot at one point.

If he didnt have a wife... ill be flirting like mad but because he does and the fact that hes like on my mind way more than he should be... I give him the cold shoulder.... but I secretly want him to tell me likes me.
bolded changes everything. Just deleted my first post.
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Old 12-28-2014, 08:34 AM
 
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Oh, God. You really need to grow up.

Why not try for men who are available instead of for married men?

I think you should consider therapy to get at why you are engaged in self defeating behaviors and how to stop.
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