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A met a guy in work. I added him on Facebook.We started talking and later he gave me his number and asked if a snapchat. Later that week he asked me on Facebook if I was coming over, I assumed he was drunk so I ignored the text. Then he messaged me again saying he was drunk and that he was sorry. He didn't want to give me the wrong impression. I asked him how drunk he was and he told me a 6.5.. he said he was going to a party that following friday and asked if I wanted to come. I said sure and he offered to pick me up. We got to the party and it was just his family members and some friends. He took me upstairs to his bed and he started kissing me. I told him a wasn't going to have sex with him and told him to take me to my cousins house since there was another party. He took me and said goodnight. He wasn't messaged me or anything. I was starting to have feelings for him but now idk.
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Sounds like he was trying to work out a FWB situation with you. If that's not what you're interested in with him then simply move on before you get too close. He has done you a favor displaying his true regard for you so early.
Do you want to be his booty call buddy? If not, then don't bother texting or messaging with this guy. That looks like what he was looking for. You say that you were starting to have feelings for him. Don't confuse attraction with love, they're not the same thing.
I like a quote from Maya Angelou..."When someone shows you who they really are, believe them the first time." He has shown you who he really is...someone who drinks too much and calls you because he's horny. Don't get hung up on someone who thinks that's who you are and what you want.
Friends with benefits? If you're not into that, then why do you have feelings for him? The feelings aren't that strong yet unless you're a stalker so move on.....seems pretty obvious to me. He already has moved on.
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