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I remember a month a go he asked me that if we break up I ll still talk to him because he would ...he saw a sad deep expression on my face and he held my hand.He said , are u ok baby ? I'm not saying thats whats gona happen...he held me so close that night and told me my innocence and patience amazes him but scares him at same time...I told him i lol always love him ...he smiled and his eyes showed so much love for me.he said I just want to live the present...I have a feeling I might end up lonely even if I don't want that...then I saw him once after that when we just were happy like everything was ok....then he turned distant.
Possible that he wanted a low-key breakup. Sometimes so low-key that the other party in the relationship does not even know it was indeed a breakup.
Yes, you sound like a sweet and innocent person, perfect prey for those kinds of turds.
But, he lives like 10 min away. Couldn't he just call or txt, hey , I cannot see u anymore ' .he let me believe twice last week that he is coming by my house to take me out ?
I ve been dating this man for the past seven month seeing each other in the weekends.He goes MIA at times for few days but always reaches out to me.He told me he cares for me a lot but he is very unstable with relationships.I fell in love deeply with him .He did warn me however that if he feells he will hurt me he will just break it of and not come back.He is very bold and upfront about everything...I have not seen him for almost one month now even though we communicate and we are technically together .He had family out of town visiting but never been away from me for so long....It was New Year Day when we last spoke and he told me he ll come see me Friday and we talked about going on a trip soon for the weekend sometimes this month...no call no show....I texted him Sunday night to wish him a nice evening and hoped we see each other soon, kisses and hugs .than I called him once Monday morning and sent him a text to check out tickets on the trip....no answer....Wensday I called couple of times and ask him if he can call me when he gets a chance .nothing .Thursday I texted him once and asked what time he gets off work and hope he is ok...nothing.he goes MIA at times and told me he likes to be alone sometimes...he never been out of touch that long and I ve been patient with him during our relationship .did he break up ? Why he can't just call or drop by to see me and tell me ?
He gave you some heavy warnings, you put him before yourself. You sure it was his family that visited him for the holidays. Once you texted him Sunday that should have been it. When a person is interested in you, they will go out their way to contact you to make sure you know they're interested. It seem like he's telling you he's no longer interested without just telling you straight up or he could be playing mind games.
But, he lives like 10 min away. Couldn't he just call or txt, hey , I cannot see u anymore ' .he let me believe twice last week that he is coming by my house to take me out ?
You will rarely get an explanation for the reason of the breakup. That is the hard part, and also why letting go is so difficult. The true closure will come once you see him for who/what he truly is.
And yes, they promise you the moon and the stars, just before they toss you out. These are not normal relationships, so we can't relate to them in such way, either.
Again, start googling stuff. Eventually you will find your answers. Only you know the details of the relationship, things that seemed odd or off, etc.
I never met his family or been to his house.he told me also there is a secret that he has never told me but if things work out in the future he will tell me.
I never met his family or been to his house.he told me also there is a secret that he has never told me but if things work out in the future he will tell me.
Is he married...? Family comes in town & he goes missing, you've never been to his house, he has things he'll tell you in the future. He sounds married.
He showed you upfront who he REALLY is. Be thankful you are rid of him. He sounds like a real coward too. There's nothing wrong with you, you just gave your heart to the wrong guy. Set the bar higher next time...
Very private .never had me on his Facebook .i know though he suffers from depresion
Married.
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