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Old 01-18-2015, 10:47 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I can out bench you.
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Old 01-18-2015, 10:49 PM
 
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Default Prepare for Rejection

Will you be comfortable continuing to go there when she rejects you?
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Old 01-18-2015, 11:21 PM
 
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If you are a 10 why are you asking us?
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Old 01-18-2015, 11:31 PM
 
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Just sprout a pair and ask her. You will likely be shot down. However, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Even the confident, smooth talkers have bad days.
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Old 01-19-2015, 03:46 AM
 
Location: Spokane, Washington
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So...yeah, sounds like you have a great chance with Rachel...as Sarah has no clue who you are.

Why do people assume that just because a girl is shy, approaching her is going to scare her off? She's not a doe, you're not a hunter, JUST TALK TO HER.
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Old 01-19-2015, 05:03 AM
 
Location: PANAMA
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What do you mean the old lady may be screwing that already?
The old lady is okay for info (intel so to speak in military terms) but you need to do things for yourself. You already said you are gonna meet the "lucky lady" so now the ball is on your side, make it wortwhile.
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Old 01-19-2015, 07:47 AM
 
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This sounds very "high school" to me...how old are you?
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Old 01-19-2015, 07:53 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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The only way you'll really have a chance with Sarah is if you freaking say something and quit being scared.

No woman wants a guy who doesn't have the spine to talk to her himself (at least I know I wouldn't), and instead gets another WOMAN to talk to her for him. That's so juvenile and not a good way to start something off if you do want something with her.

Say something.

Jeez.
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Old 01-19-2015, 08:00 AM
 
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Will you be comfortable continuing to go there when she rejects you?
I'm sure at first it would sting, but overtime I don't let thing bother me.
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Old 01-19-2015, 08:05 AM
 
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I'm sure at first it would sting, but overtime I don't let thing bother me.
I find that surprising. You appear to be so afraid of rejection that you have to get some woman to do your approaching for you. I can assure you that the young lady will be less than impressed with your insecurity and fear.
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