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I'm 29 and have never been on date or had a girlfriend.
Of course, I have a physical disability (walk with a gait) like Dr House, albeit it's much worse. Therefore, that's been the main reason for my lack of success. Women don't find that attractive, and in no way would I expect them to do so. I'm damaged physically and I 100% understand why women not want to be in a relationship with me.
Thankfully, I'm married to my career and have had success academically and in the corporate world, so that's what I pour my efforts into....especially given that in the next ten years my disability will get progressively worse and I'll have to leave the work force and just live off disability payments from the govt.
OK. So it seems as if you are not interested in having a relationship. From your posts, you seem intelligent and thoughtful. From your picture, you are quite attractive. So there would be no reason you shouldn't be in a relationship with a nice person, unless you don't really want that. Is that the case?
It's a mixture of reasons.
1. (The Big one) I'm not attracted to anyone at the moment.
2. The males in my area are not good candidates (want side pieces, are taken, too much drama surrounds them, players, etc)
3. I just don't believe it's in thd cards for me right now.
It just isn't a major priority for me. I am not against dating at all, I wouldn't mind having a companion or a relatioshiprelationship with someone I can connect with on that level, but it's not something you can force. It happens in its' own time I want to learn to appreciate where I am now before I involve someone else. It takes a lot of time to build on a relationship with someone and it's a partnership. It's lot deeper than being thoughful, physically attractive, and intelligent. Although those compliments are appreciated.
1. (The Big one) I'm not attracted to anyone at the moment.
2. The males in my area are not good candidates (want side pieces, are taken, too much drama surrounds them, players, etc)
3. I just don't believe it's in thd cards for me right now.
It just isn't a major priority for me. I am not against dating at all, I wouldn't mind having a companion or a relatioshiprelationship with someone I can connect with on that level, but it's not something you can force. It happens in its' own time I want to learn to appreciate where I am now before I involve someone else. It takes a lot of time to build on a relationship with someone and it's a partnership. It's lot deeper than being thoughful, physically attractive, and intelligent. Although those compliments are appreciated.
Too many people argue and say that men have life easier than women do, that includes dating, for the dating aspect, if it truly was easier for men than there wouldn't be so many male late bloomers in the world of dating and relationships, as in guys who are still a virgin or never had a gf at 25+ years of age
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