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Old 01-27-2015, 07:42 AM
 
Location: Manhattan, NYC
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Anytime that I've ever seen a woman describe a man as "cute", in reality, he was extremely good-looking and way out of her league.

Women have different standards for looks (as most women find 80% of men to be below average). So I'm sure your version of "cute" is also many other women's versions as well.
I don't necessarily agree but I really like the way it's put .
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Old 01-27-2015, 08:44 AM
 
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Anytime that I've ever seen a woman describe a man as "cute", in reality, he was extremely good-looking and way out of her league.

Women have different standards for looks (as most women find 80% of men to be below average). So I'm sure your version of "cute" is also many other women's versions as well.
Definitely this.

Plus, I've never understood the "I really like this guy, but I think he's a player...what do I do?" mentality. Seems pretty straightforward to me:

Either you give yourself a chance to find out for yourself (and subsequently, determine if it bothers you or not), or you are SO concerned with the idea of even potentially going out with a player that you heed the warning signs and stay away, in which case you simply have to get over the fact that you liked him.
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Old 01-27-2015, 09:47 AM
 
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Anytime that I've ever seen a woman describe a man as "cute", in reality, he was extremely good-looking and way out of her league.

Women have different standards for looks (as most women find 80% of men to be below average). So I'm sure your version of "cute" is also many other women's versions as well.
Well, actually, yes he is out of my league. That is why I was so surprised when he asked....I'm sure the guy he is with must be too.
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Old 01-27-2015, 09:50 AM
 
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This doesn't seem weird or unusual to me. You have no idea of his relationship with these girls. He could work with them, be sisters of his friends, friends of friends or relatives. You're looking for reasons for this guy to be something sketchy...I kinda feel sorry for him at this point.

It's just a date, it's not a promise. Get to know him. It's one thing if he has pictures of nothing but booze bottles, bongs and strippers in his photos...if he posts about hooking up with a different girl every night or whatever...these might be warning signs that he might not be your type. However, he simply asked you out, he saw something in you that he likes. Stop over analyzing every little thing and enjoy the moment.
If it's just FB friends, its fine. But he follows them on FB, and every single person (probably 9/10) of the people he follows on FB is a young, attractive girls around that age and some of them apparently doesn't know him (not FB friends). That's different IMO.
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Old 01-27-2015, 09:52 AM
 
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Also OP, how many young girls does he have as friends approx, 50, 200, 500, more?
I didn't check that precise lol. Just checked who he's following and quickly scroll through the page.
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Old 01-27-2015, 09:53 AM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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If you found him attractive and you are a normal girl that means he has a lot of experience.
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Old 01-27-2015, 10:07 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Anyone here have experience going out with a stranger?

Well sure, everyone I go out with is a stranger when I first meet them. Why not go? Where is the harm? Unless you're super busy.
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Old 01-27-2015, 10:09 AM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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That's because he is a player. I would not hit this guy up if I were you. He's probably trying to hit it and quit it.
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Old 01-27-2015, 11:17 AM
 
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Well sure, everyone I go out with is a stranger when I first meet them. Why not go? Where is the harm? Unless you're super busy.
May i ask you where you meet them?
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Old 01-27-2015, 12:56 PM
 
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I was approached by this really cute guy today. We made some really small talks and he gave me his number (he probably saw that I don't feel comfortable giving mines) and his FB. Before he left with his friend, he told me I should grab lunch with him someday. But when I went home and looked him up at FB, I saw that he have quite a lot of attractive female friends. He also said "thanks, cutie" to a girl when she left him a message on his recent status. It's a turn-off because it makes him seem like a player and flirts with a bunch of girls. Should I still hit this guy up? :/ Anyone here have experience going out with a stranger?
Before Facebook, Myspace, Twitter, internet dating site, and AOL, this is what we use to do. Approach a strangers and get to know them and eventually ask them if they want to go out sometimes.
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