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But yes it does baffle me why these guys stay with these crazy women and yet I am completely single. I give up trying to date. I have no patience for the losers and can't attract the good guys. I am done...
I think the answer to why they arent dating you was given in your other thread about dating single dads.
I think the answer to why they arent dating you was given in your other thread about dating single dads.
The why does not matter. I checked myself out of the dating game.
I must not be meant to hae a husband so I gave up looking for one. It is way less disappointment and heartache that way. And frankly, every day it gets easier to be alone.
The why does not matter. I checked myself out of the dating game.
I must not be meant to hae a husband so I gave up looking for one. It is way less disappointment and heartache that way. And frankly, every day it gets easier to be alone.
What are some men thinking? are men that desperate that they will agree to support lazy women like apparently the woman who is the topic of this thread is? if the kids aren't his, why s he supporting them? I'd tell her to go away and to get a job to support her and her kids.
She's looking for a better deal, but does not want to let go of her current situation until she has secured a new guy. Primary reason: to 'help with expenses.'
Totally agree... And that is what I would do, but I am not in her shoes and can afford my life without having a man helping to pay my bills.
You have the whole state's population of men helping with paying your bills. What's the difference, between her needing your friend, and you needing the state?
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Originally Posted by LowonLuck
Lol she is a real piece of work. She cannot afford to pay the rent and all of the expenses to support her and her two children. She needs him financially. I think that is why she keeps sucking him in. It is not like she treats him right and wants him. If she did, she would not be wanting other men to.
Why he stays in the situation is a mystery to me.
Again, what is the difference between the two of you? She needs your friend, so it's personal? You use the state, there is no difference, other than you have milked your resource, and she is just starting. Maybe she actually needs his assistance, while you don't....you are just bitter because she has what you don't, and that's your friend.
She's looking for a better deal, but does not want to let go of her current situation until she has secured a new guy. Primary reason: to 'help with expenses.'
I think this might be the case as well. Time will tell.
So lets say a couple fights constantly and living together in a very negative environment. She tells him that he should move out, but still help with expenses. She says they can work on improving relationship while not living together.
What does she really mean?
Ok lets say a BF/GF are living together in an apartment and decide they should live apart. He moves out. Why in the hell should he still help with expenses when he has moved out?
What she really means is I don't want to be together with you anymore, but I still want you to help support me.
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