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Old 02-13-2015, 03:48 AM
 
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As a father in your middle 30's if you had two daughters ages 9 and 15 would you date a 19 yr old that had two kids ages 5 and 7 months from two different guys? Is this normal? To me its disgusting but Im female and of course Id say that. Im not 19!!! Lol
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Old 02-13-2015, 03:53 AM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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I wouldn't date a 19 yr old with 2 kids aged 5 and 7months regardless of my own age.
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Old 02-13-2015, 03:54 AM
 
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She's an adult, so there's nothing actually wrong with dating a 19 year old.

Personally, my morals wouldn't let me date someone that was younger than 21, but other people are different, and if that 19 year old is happy with that 30+ year old guy, I think she may have some underlying issues but I wouldn't verbally say anything.
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Old 02-13-2015, 05:02 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Of course it's not normal. Don't pretend to be bewildered. A 19-year-old with a 5-year-old child--think about it.
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Old 02-13-2015, 05:30 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Its rare any man would date a mom with an infant, regardless of her age.
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Old 02-13-2015, 05:59 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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She's an adult, ....
That's debatable.
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Old 02-13-2015, 06:19 AM
 
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It's funny that you title the thread "dads who date teenagers." You could have just as easily titled it, "30-somethings who date moms" since you're describing a 30-something dad dating a 19-year-old mom.

Both are consenting adults, so that's the beginning and end of that debate as far as I'm concerned. It might not be the choice I would make, but it doesn't mean they can't.

If anything, the bigger issue is that someone became a mom at 14. Yikes.
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Old 02-13-2015, 06:28 AM
 
Location: San Bernandino, CA
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If you are over 30 and your date is not of legal drinking age... while legal, it's poor taste in my opinion, and at 19, borderline pedo territory
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Old 02-13-2015, 07:02 AM
 
Location: NY
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I have a feeling this is an extremely rare and unique situation. The title of the thread makes it sound common.

So really, there is no way to make a general statement here, because generally 30 year old men with kids are not dating teenagers.

Best answer is this: No, it is not normal at all.
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Old 02-13-2015, 07:56 AM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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My mom is pretty close to the age of my half sister.
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