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Old 03-04-2015, 06:15 PM
 
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Everyone knows me and my situation

My ex boyfriend will not leave me alone he continues to call and call he managed to get my new number and now I'm afraid he will show up at my job or where I work

How can I deal with this? What can I do??
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Old 03-04-2015, 06:29 PM
 
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Just went and read your other posts about this guy/relationship.

Ignore him, it seems to be the only thing you haven't done. He'll get the hint eventually.
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Old 03-04-2015, 06:58 PM
 
Location: My House
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Everyone knows me and my situation

My ex boyfriend will not leave me alone he continues to call and call he managed to get my new number and now I'm afraid he will show up at my job or where I work

How can I deal with this? What can I do??
Take out a restraining order and never speak to him again.
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Old 03-04-2015, 08:15 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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If you are genuinely concerned go and get a restraining order. Ignore everything.
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Old 03-04-2015, 08:34 PM
 
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First, never meet up with him again. This only gives him encouragement.

Ignore the calls and let people in your life know what's going on, friends and family, so they are aware that this guy is harmful.
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Old 03-04-2015, 09:08 PM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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Civil Protection Order. Call the police precinct and tell them, theyll instruct you with what to do.
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Old 03-05-2015, 12:23 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Restraining order. And get one fast.

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Old 03-05-2015, 12:26 AM
 
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Protection order.
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Old 03-05-2015, 12:28 AM
 
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Everyone knows me and my situation

My ex boyfriend will not leave me alone he continues to call and call he managed to get my new number and now I'm afraid he will show up at my job or where I work

How can I deal with this? What can I do??

Look up the Stalker Laws in your area, file a restraining order, block all access, change your number and have him arrested as often as necessary, especially if he shows up at your place of employment.

(Isn't your job and where you work the same place?)
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Old 03-05-2015, 12:32 AM
 
Location: California
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New cell number? Block his number. Don't allow comments on any social media so you can avoid interactions that way too.

I don't know your situation and don't care to know more than I do, but if you have reason to think he's dangerous or he's threatening you then do something besides post it here. If not, don't stress about what if situations.
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