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Originally Posted by Butterflyfish
I think the people who are saying that it's not "realistic", just don't know any better. Our media perpetuates the illusion that everyone is banging everyone else 24/7. Maybe most people are, but there's still plenty of "prudes" out there, like me. LOL I admire people who live with conviction; even when it isn't fashionable.
I don't know why everyone else always gets their feathers ruffled about it. Do what you want, live with the consequences, either way.
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Agreed here. And hell, it doesn't even have to be most people. Just the ones they are banging alot are more vocal about it and want everyone to know it. It's like some say in HS "Everybody's doing it." They may not be, just the many that are aren't subtle and have no problems letting others know about it.. lol
So nothing wrong with waiting, or not long as you just like sex, then have it for that. Don't have it to please or think it wins love. Thing is, if you're a waiter lol, best to tell a new partner that's how you feel. Then if they wanna bow out and don't see sex the same way, nobody has wasted anyone's time.
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