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I'll echo the others: He sounds like a selfish tool. It's one thing to fumble along until you learn each other. It's another to be defensive about himself and insensitive toward you. I'd get rid of him.
Yeah no kidding. This thread is a really good example why waiting until after you are married before having sex is a big mistake IMO.
Having it before marriage doesn't help. A couple I know had sex constantly when they were getting started. Then by the end, the woman complained that her guy had ED and would rather watch porn and do solo than have sex with her. She had to beg him for sex, even saying he could just lay down and play on his phone and that she'd do everything. Complaining she wore a sexy maid outfit and wanted to roleplay and all he wanted was to watch tv and eat. They didn't wait for marriage, but their sex life still ended up sucking in terms of her not getting any for days and/or weeks at a time.
So really, sex being great or staying great is not guaranteed under any circumstances. Waiting or not. Some wait for marriage and have a good sex life, long as their partner isn't totally selfish. But yes, other won't be so lucky-they get a partner who's great, but the one place they're selfish is in bed. Just depends on the people involved.
Last edited by HappyRain; 03-17-2015 at 05:18 AM..
This is what I'm really worried about, is he being like this because he doesn't like me? What do others think?
No, I think he's very self-conscious about sex, doesn't know what he's doing, and is too uncomfortable/embarrassed about sex to have any sort of discussion around it. I honestly don't see this improving too much, unfortunately.
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