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the pictures actually is just posing sexy, with cleavage showing. Looking very hot and sexy.obviously took it on facebook. Do you guys think i over reacted?
I know he watches porn, and im not that bothered, as i said, it freaks the hell out of me when i saw our friends photos. He had his explanation and i buy it.
And yes, i will not leave him. Maybe, he has this flaws, but that doesn't mean ill waste our years of marriage. He is a great man. And nothing is too late for us to understand each other.
Again, thank you everyone.
Him saving pictures of your friends from their facebook pages because he thinks they look sexy is totally creepy. That's totally inappropriate. I can't believe you're more upset about the porn than you are about the pics of your friends. That would make me furious if I found pics of my friends on my husband's phone. I can't understand why you're so understanding about that.
You may not like what I have to say, but IMHO, many men seek out porn for entertainment because their sex life at home is lacking. How often do you folks have sex. Does he want it more but you decline often? Is your sex life repetitive? Does he try to get you to try new things, and you decline that also? Instead of getting upset about the porn, you might try to find out what he thinks about the quality of your sex life? Maybe its time for some honest conversations with your husband. Many women don't understand that a man's sex drive can be very strong. For some men, its not a matter of being in the mood. Day or night, they're usually in the mood. Their switch is always on. Talk to your husband.
I don't agree with this at all. Men look at porn because they like it. A guy can be getting it a lot and still think...hmmm porn. They might have bedroom issues as a couple , but probably not. Many men just like porn.
The friend thing would be a deal breaker for me. That's super offensive and creepy.
Ugh, OP, this is City Data; most of the people who have responded so far watch porn all the time and many have never been in a relationship. You are looking for answers in the wrong place.
What you need to do is go to a marriage counselor and discuss this with her (see a woman and not a man). I don't watch porn anymore and I'm still pretty young so all this hard wired business to watch porn is a bunch of porn addicts justifying their problem.
Posting your question here about Porn would be the equivalent of a concerned mother asking a drug dealer if drugs are going to harm her child; consider the source. Remember, the internet is full of sickos who prior to the internet would have descended into perversion without trying to justify it to an audience.
I am not going to be as strong as the ^^^^^ poster but I found porn to be addictive and have decided is wasn't helping my marriage. I am not going to condemn those that do like it but I think you have to be careful and not it be consuming.
Ugh, OP, this is City Data; most of the people who have responded so far watch porn all the time and many have never been in a relationship. You are looking for answers in the wrong place.
What you need to do is go to a marriage counselor and discuss this with her (see a woman and not a man). I don't watch porn anymore and I'm still pretty young so all this hard wired business to watch porn is a bunch of porn addicts justifying their problem.
Posting your question here about Porn would be the equivalent of a concerned mother asking a drug dealer if drugs are going to harm her child; consider the source. Remember, the internet is full of sickos who prior to the internet would have descended into perversion without trying to justify it to an audience.
I have to wonder why you're even here if you feel this way about people on the internet. You're just a ray of sunshine.
OP, I don't think every man watches porn but as others have said, that is not as much of a concern as him having inappropriate pictures of your friends.
Now this. The fappening site. The one that got infamous coz of Jennifer Lawrence naked leak pics. So guess what he told me, oh I just go there to see if there are new leak photos!!!!!
Fappening site- haven't heard that one before! Thanks for the good laugh! Dated a guy in college (not very long)- we were in his dorm room making out on his bed. I kept catching a whiff of musty odor coming from his pillow. I even said "what's that smell?" at one point and he just answered "I dunno. I don't smell anything." Then I felt something in his pillow and reached in his pillow case and pulled it out. Yeah... his fapping rag was in there.
why are some of the women here keep trying to come up with some deep reason to why a guy would watch porn?
sigh... Its not rocket surgery
STRAIGHT MEN LOVE LOOKING AT NAKED WOMEN
lol @ you ladies with the misguided idea that because he gets regular sex from you that he wont look at porn ahahaha too funny... there is the disconnect
a married woman should only be concerned if your husband is watching gay porn
honestly, get over it. . if anyone has internet access and has been bored they have googled porn at some point
there are a handful of bad b's in the porno industry that you will never have sex with that you may want to fantasize about
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Dated a guy in college (not very long)- we were in his dorm room making out on his bed. I kept catching a whiff of musty odor coming from his pillow. I even said "what's that smell?" at one point and he just answered "I dunno. I don't smell anything." Then I felt something in his pillow and reached in his pillow case and pulled it out. Yeah... his fapping rag was in there. 
