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Old 06-21-2015, 10:33 PM
 
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I've been dating this guy for several months now long distance and I've been thinking about going to California to visit him. I'm 18 so I know I can do what I want but my parents are very strict. My fear is if I go to California to see my boyfriend my parents will take away my phone and computer and therefore I won't be able to talk to him for about a month until I go to college in August. I really love my boyfriend and I really want to meet him. So I put the question out to you guys. Do I take a risk and go to California to meet him or stay home and not go?

 
Old 06-21-2015, 10:35 PM
 
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I've been dating this guy for several months now long distance and I've been thinking about going to California to visit him. I'm 18 so I know I can do what I want but my parents are very strict. My fear is if I go to California to see my boyfriend my parents will take away my phone and computer and therefore I won't be able to talk to him for about a month until I go to college in August. I really love my boyfriend and I really want to meet him. So I put the question out to you guys. Do I take a risk and go to California to meet him or stay home and not go?
Dump the guy , there are plenty of guys in college ��
 
Old 06-21-2015, 10:36 PM
 
Location: U.S. (East Coast)
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You don't love him; you're infatuated with him. Get it right.
 
Old 06-21-2015, 10:45 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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I've been dating this guy for several months now long distance and I've been thinking about going to California to visit him. I'm 18 so I know I can do what I want but my parents are very strict. My fear is if I go to California to see my boyfriend my parents will take away my phone and computer and therefore I won't be able to talk to him for about a month until I go to college in August. I really love my boyfriend and I really want to meet him. So I put the question out to you guys. Do I take a risk and go to California to meet him or stay home and not go?

Well if your parents have the ability to take away your phone and computer as punishment, it sure sounds like they are paying for it, which sounds like you don't have a damn job, which makes me wonder how in the hell you think you're getting to California in the first place?
 
Old 06-21-2015, 10:48 PM
 
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Well if your parents have the ability to take away your phone and computer as punishment, it sure sounds like they are paying for it, which sounds like you don't have a damn job, which makes me wonder how in the hell you think you're getting to California in the first place?
I do have a job and I'm paying for it myself.
 
Old 06-21-2015, 10:51 PM
 
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Sounds to me like mommy and daddy hold the cards here.
 
Old 06-21-2015, 11:17 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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If you're young enough to still be dealing with parental discipline, you're too young to be jetting across the country to meet strangers.
 
Old 06-22-2015, 12:11 AM
 
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Sounds like you don't really know him that well - at least having met him and/or his family and friends. Best to wait until you are at University then you can decide if you should visit (or he can visit you (better)).
 
Old 06-22-2015, 05:01 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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No, he's not your boyfriend. He's a pen pal.

Just hold out till you get to college. You will meet plenty of real-life guys there.
 
Old 06-22-2015, 05:06 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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Hold on until college.
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