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Yeeeeeah. Well, I'm almost 24. In less than a week. She turns 39 in September. She looks *NOWHERE* near 38. Seriously when she said that it blew my mind. She called me jailbait....heh... In my head I was always guessing anywhere from 26-29 tops. Maaaaaaaybe 30. And I was super attracted to her from day 1...on the job. Super gorgeous. We work together in an office / lab setting and she is 2 seats down, definitely close enough to have conversations. Been very flirtatious...I gave her a copy of a movie on a flash drive the other day and shew got all huggy/touchy about it (fine by me) and I told her she should let me know what she thinks of it; today at work she said she didn't watch it but I just missed her call (at 12:35 in the morning but phone was on silent) so I'm assuming that's what it's about o.o. I texted her that my roommate and his bf are asleep so i have to be quiet but did you watch the movie? She hasn;t answered the text.... Anyway, I figure she wouldn;t have called me at this hour on our days off (Sun and Mon) if she wasn't somewhat interested in me...and like I said I think she is very pretty and a cool person, drove/bought her lunch the other day on our break...but...
my real question here is....
is the age difference a bit...too much? I mean...that's 15 years. That's a big diff...hell, my dad's wife is the same age...i'm pretty confused, don't really know what to do. any advice?
She probably just wants to experience a young guy in the bedroom again. Go for it, but don't get attached. I personally prefer not to sleep with a much older woman for multiple reasons, and would never date one. Age does matter for me.
Last edited by JobSeeker101; 03-07-2015 at 11:36 PM..
I think the fun shall begin tomorrow....we've been texting (she answered heh) and she hasn;t watched the movie the USB drive I gave her doesnt fit something or something....so i'm going over tomorrow night...gulp. I'm like. nervous...lol.
Yeeeeeah. Well, I'm almost 24. In less than a week. She turns 39 in September. She looks *NOWHERE* near 38. Seriously when she said that it blew my mind. She called me jailbait....heh... In my head I was always guessing anywhere from 26-29 tops. Maaaaaaaybe 30. And I was super attracted to her from day 1...on the job. Super gorgeous. We work together in an office / lab setting and she is 2 seats down, definitely close enough to have conversations. Been very flirtatious...I gave her a copy of a movie on a flash drive the other day and shew got all huggy/touchy about it (fine by me) and I told her she should let me know what she thinks of it; today at work she said she didn't watch it but I just missed her call (at 12:35 in the morning but phone was on silent) so I'm assuming that's what it's about o.o. I texted her that my roommate and his bf are asleep so i have to be quiet but did you watch the movie? She hasn;t answered the text.... Anyway, I figure she wouldn;t have called me at this hour on our days off (Sun and Mon) if she wasn't somewhat interested in me...and like I said I think she is very pretty and a cool person, drove/bought her lunch the other day on our break...but...
my real question here is....
is the age difference a bit...too much? I mean...that's 15 years. That's a big diff...hell, my dad's wife is the same age...i'm pretty confused, don't really know what to do. any advice?
I met my husband at work. Just down the street from where you work.
He's 13 years younger than me. We've been together almost 10 years. Married almost 5.
Just enjoy yourself and see what happens.
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