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I think so too. Reading certain dating forums, you get the impression that EVERYONE has casual sex and that you MUST have casual sex if you want any chance at finding a partner one day. I don't buy it.
I don't think there is a "normal" and I think this question is strange. It's very personal and I don't know what anyone would want to do with this information.
I don't think there is a "normal" and I think this question is strange. It's very personal and I don't know what anyone would want to do with this information.
i think the perception is more interesting than the reality.
several responders seem to think that everyone is wicked slam every 2 - 3 days.
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I'm 41 and I've done it one time so far, and it was an amazing experience with an amazing person! I'm glad I waited for her. Of course we are not in a relationship; she's a lesbian, and is in a relationship with another woman now, but I knew she was a lesbian coming into it. I hope to find someone else I care about and with whom I am at least close friends, with whom I can experience it again!
any people in their 30's or older that are still as sexually active, they don't feel their sex drive has gone down once their 20's ended? it feels the same as in their 20's or even higher?
I feel like my sex drive is through the roof in my mid 30s. That being said, due to the ongoing lack of decent options, I much prefer to bust out my lube bottle then having sex with someone unattractive just for the sake of having sex per se.
For me, when someone starts "bragging" about how they've only had one partner in their life, or only two or whatever, I just want to laugh in their face. Like, nobody really cares and they aren't going to get a gold medal for virtue.
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