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My husband gets mad about things too...he had a bad day at work Monday and called me 6 times to yell about how his day was going. I don't mind because obviously he needs to vent, and I'd much rather he told me everything that was wrong than go yell at his boss or something like that. He used to be upset a lot more often when we were younger, now age has mellowed him except for the occasional bad day. I guess you could hope your boyfriend grows out of his moods, or you could move on before you get too attached to him.
My husband gets mad about things too...he had a bad day at work Monday and called me 6 times to yell about how his day was going. I don't mind because obviously he needs to vent, and I'd much rather he told me everything that was wrong than go yell at his boss or something like that. He used to be upset a lot more often when we were younger, now age has mellowed him except for the occasional bad day. I guess you could hope your boyfriend grows out of his moods, or you could move on before you get too attached to him.
I can't imagine living with that. In any case, the OP is very young, still in her teens, apparently. She has loads of time to find a more easygoing, mature guy.
Ask yourself...how much longer do I want to deal with this person?
Love is difficult and I feel for you...but at least for me I need to be around and optimist.
He's 19 years old and acts so immaturely in most situations -
What attracted you to a "boy" who behaves this way?
Personally I don't want to know anyone who behaves this way...much less date them.
The realty is that most guys don't have any sense at that age.
He is infantile when dealing with life situations. He is bitter and angry and if that is his mindset now how do you think he is going to act when he is in his 20's or 30's?
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How do I deal with this?
You should be asking this instead. What is wrong with me to allow myself to remain in a relationship with a boy that lacks emotional intelligence? He clearly has issues but you are the one who allows yourself to remain in this dysfunctional abusive relationship. Why are you allowing this?
Its stress. Some people don't handle things well. Maybe some counseling.
It's immaturity. And yes, he needs counseling, but you shouldn't stick around to see the results of that. It could take a couple of years, IF he recognizes that he needs to change and makes an effort in that direction. There are so many great guys out there you could be meeting, instead of putting up with emotional abuse from your current bf.
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