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So, my boyfriends currently travelling home from work, and is experiencing some issues with public transport. He's rang me three times and these are our phone conversations. See his attitude for yourself:
He rang me about an hour ago after he had finished and was like "The f***ing trains delayed - it's delayed by thirty minutes" he's literally shouting over the phone, like some little baby throwing a tantrum. He tells me that he's going to get the bus.
About twenty minutes later he's ringing me again, "The bus stop is closed, I can't believe this, absolutely ridiculous, I'm just ready to quit. I'm going to get a bike, that's the only way. Gonna ride my bike to work, don't care if I get hit by a car, at least I won't have to put up with this".
Five minutes ago, he's ringing again. This time he's at the wrong bus stop, he tells me and he's like "This is f***ing ridiculous, I'm f***ing sick of this, I'm ready to leave this city, I hate my job, I'm ready to leave my job, ready to leave everything"... he's literally sulking over the phone.
I feel like I'm losing so much respect for him.
He's 19 years old and acts so immaturely in most situations - if anything conviniences him in the slightest he's ready to throw a tantrum.
Other examples the internet in our house stops for five minutes - he's like "Uhhhhh, I'm ready to move back in with my parents. Ready to take a plane back to my own county. F*** this house. F*** everything."
And... we are out early one morning travelling to the seaside for a nice day out. We have a difficult morning, get on the wrong train and then realize that we don't have the correct tickets - he literally starts sulking, refuses to talk to me and is like "Uhh, we might as well just go all the way back home and spend our day inside".
Other examples: We didn't have any accommodation for a holiday, and I told him I didn't feel like looking after we got into an argument. He's like "Oh okay then. Let's just not go, we'll cancel everything".
He gets into moods so often (literally wanting almost nothing to do with me and makes me feel like everything is my fault), when he is earlier than I expected and he has to wait for me, when he's in crowded places, when we can't do something straight away, whenever something doesn't go his way, doesn't work perfectly, inconveniences him, it's so tedious and tiring.
How do I deal with this?
So, my boyfriends currently travelling home from work, and is experiencing some issues with public transport. He's rang me three times and these are our phone conversations. See his attitude for yourself:
He rang me about an hour ago after he had finished and was like "The f***ing trains delayed - it's delayed by thirty minutes" he's literally shouting over the phone, like some little baby throwing a tantrum. He tells me that he's going to get the bus.
About twenty minutes later he's ringing me again, "The bus stop is closed, I can't believe this, absolutely ridiculous, I'm just ready to quit. I'm going to get a bike, that's the only way. Gonna ride my bike to work, don't care if I get hit by a car, at least I won't have to put up with this".
Five minutes ago, he's ringing again. This time he's at the wrong bus stop, he tells me and he's like "This is f***ing ridiculous, I'm f***ing sick of this, I'm ready to leave this city, I hate my job, I'm ready to leave my job, ready to leave everything"... he's literally sulking over the phone.
I feel like I'm losing so much respect for him.
He's 19 years old and acts so immaturely in most situations - if anything conviniences him in the slightest he's ready to throw a tantrum.
Other examples the internet in our house stops for five minutes - he's like "Uhhhhh, I'm ready to move back in with my parents. Ready to take a plane back to my own county. F*** this house. F*** everything."
And... we are out early one morning travelling to the seaside for a nice day out. We have a difficult morning, get on the wrong train and then realize that we don't have the correct tickets - he literally starts sulking, refuses to talk to me and is like "Uhh, we might as well just go all the way back home and spend our day inside".
Other examples: We didn't have any accommodation for a holiday, and I told him I didn't feel like looking after we got into an argument. He's like "Oh okay then. Let's just not go, we'll cancel everything".
He gets into moods so often (literally wanting almost nothing to do with me and makes me feel like everything is my fault), when he is earlier than I expected and he has to wait for me, when he's in crowded places, when we can't do something straight away, whenever something doesn't go his way, doesn't work perfectly, inconveniences him, it's so tedious and tiring.
How do I deal with this?
How many times are you going to come here and cry about your douchebag boyfriend? We've told you over & over again, there is no dealing with it, you leave. If you stay, that's on you.
mmmKay. Its like this is a running blog of the problems with this boyfriend.. The last thread isn't even 24 hours old. I keep posting that you two need to sit and talk.
The more I hear about this.. the more I am thinking that its time to simply time to cut the relationship.
Why not tack this on to the other complaining thread about him that you posted today? Same junk.
There are multiple threads by OP in recent months complaining about her boyfriend's anger issues. Not sure why the solution remains a mystery...
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