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In my case, I'm already in my 40s. We both are. We also are SERIOUSLY looking for love online. We found each other. And made a decision like the adults that we are that we are getting married. Why delay it? If that's what you both want?
Anyway I know he is the one because he agreed to what I want which is to get married. After breaking up with me for less than a week, LOL.
And hey eventhough he was the one who broke up with me, I did not let my pride or shallowness get to me by 'making him work for it'. I want to get married, so does he and so we did.
In my case, I'm already in my 40s. We both are. We also are SERIOUSLY looking for love online. We found each other. And made a decision like the adults that we are that we are getting married. Why delay it? If that's what you both want?
Anyway I know he is the one because he agreed to what I want which is to get married. After breaking up with me for less than a week, LOL.
And hey eventhough he was the one who broke up with me, I did not let my pride or shallowness get to me by 'making him work for it'. I want to get married, so does he and so we did.
breakup and work for it? what? How long are you together and how far in did you marry?
breakup and work for it? what? How long are you together and how far in did you marry?
We dated 2 months. When I agreed to marry him. He wanted me to move in with him right then and there. So I did. He pick me up at my sister's house with all my belongings that same night . He said when I agreed, that we marry that weekend. Of course he was not in a rush to do anything, once I moved in, so I have to remind him... 'you said, you said...' Actually he always say that to me. Whenever I try to guilt trip him into doing something he promised he would do and he procrastinates.
We didn't get married that weekend, I was able to get us the marriage license though. We married the next week.
Yeah that's why our marriage is really on and off. Real roller coaster ride.
In my case, I'm already in my 40s. We both are. We also are SERIOUSLY looking for love online. We found each other. And made a decision like the adults that we are that we are getting married. Why delay it? If that's what you both want?
Anyway I know he is the one because he agreed to what I want which is to get married. After breaking up with me for less than a week, LOL.
And hey eventhough he was the one who broke up with me, I did not let my pride or shallowness get to me by 'making him work for it'. I want to get married, so does he and so we did.
You guys have a horrible marriage. I'm not sure that your input is going to be that helpful to the OP.
We dated 2 months. When I agreed to marry him. He wanted me to move in with him right then and there. So I did. He pick me up at my sister's house with all my belongings that same night . He said when I agreed, that we marry that weekend. Of course he was not in a rush to do anything, once I moved in, so I have to remind him... 'you said, said...' Actually he always say that to me. Whenever I try to guilt trip him into doing something he promised he would do and he procrastinates.
We didn't get married that weekend, I was able to get us the marriage license though. We married the next week.
Yeah that's why our marriage is really on and off. Real roller coaster ride.
So you have a lot of fights?? Since when are you married?
I thought my first boyfriend was the one - but I was wrong. I thought my ex-fiance was the one - but I was wrong. I KNEW my husband was the one. And I was right. I think I thought they were all the one really quickly - but I only knew that my husband was the one and the others weren't by being with them for a couple of years. After we had been together for awhile, I felt like my ex-boyfriend had gone back to being my best friend, I felt like my ex-fiance and I just didn't get each other, and I felt like my husband and I got each other and loved each other more and more everyday.
Be quiet. Why is it horrible? Tell me. Am I or is he? We love each other though. Most of the time.
Are you kidding me? Seriously - you started a thread about how horrible it was. And in every post you talk about how horrible it is. You are constantly walking out on him, constantly talking about how he puts his brother before you, constantly talking about how awful everything is in your marriage.
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. He said when I agreed, that we marry that weekend. Of course he was not in a rush to do anything, once I moved in, so I have to remind him... 'you said, you said...' Actually he always say that to me. Whenever I try to guilt trip him into doing something he promised he would do and he procrastinates.
Why is it horrible? Tell me. Am I or is he? We love each other though. Most of the time. 
