She cheated right before the wedding (boyfriend, advice, prenup, feeling)

[cpg35223]

Originally Posted by Mikey fresh

I found out 3 weeks before our wedding that my fiancé was cheating on my with one of her clients. My suspicions arose around March and after enough doubt filled my mind I did the unthinkable. I went over all her phone records and found a pattern of calls to a strange number that I had never seen on her phone. After enough evidence was gathered I decided to confront and she denied it until I presented the evidence to her. She then admitted it and we called the wedding off. This was last week. Last night she calls me trying to work things out. Since the first discovery I also found out she was hiding money from me in a secret bank account. I have tried to let her go but she contacts me every other day to and it's hard for me to turn her away. After all, I was ready to commit my life to her in a matter of weeks. I know she is wrong for me but how do I fight the feeling to take her back considering I still love her

Don't be a fool.

You are not in love with her. You are in love with the idea of her. Big difference between one and the other.

Block her calls. If she persists, get a restraining order. Because if she behaves this way scant weeks before you were to be married, how do you think she'll behave after you've tied the knot?

[Zone Read]

Two biggest reasons for divorce are sex and money. You got hit with both as problems even before you got married. Consider yourself lucky you found out before you needed lawyers to get out of it.

[cpg35223]

Originally Posted by Zone Read

Two biggest reasons for divorce are sex and money. You got hit with both as problems even before you got married. Consider yourself lucky you found out before you needed lawyers to get out of it.

This.

[Slowpoke_TX]

Originally Posted by Mikey fresh

how do I fight the feeling to take her back considering I still love her

There's an old saying that goes "the best way to get over a woman is to get under another one."

But in all seriousness:
Your feelings for her are temporary, but your self-respect is a permanent part of you.

[rbohm]

Originally Posted by Mikey fresh

I found out 3 weeks before our wedding that my fiancé was cheating on my with one of her clients. My suspicions arose around March and after enough doubt filled my mind I did the unthinkable. I went over all her phone records and found a pattern of calls to a strange number that I had never seen on her phone. After enough evidence was gathered I decided to confront and she denied it until I presented the evidence to her. She then admitted it and we called the wedding off. This was last week. Last night she calls me trying to work things out. Since the first discovery I also found out she was hiding money from me in a secret bank account. I have tried to let her go but she contacts me every other day to and it's hard for me to turn her away. After all, I was ready to commit my life to her in a matter of weeks. I know she is wrong for me but how do I fight the feeling to take her back considering I still love her

screw on your testicles, look her square in the eye and tell her, look stupid what part of "WE ARE DONE" do you not understand? if that doesnt get her POed enough at you to let you go, nothing will.

[ItsRick24]

Tell her to take a walk. It's one and done. And don't look back!

[Cheesesteak Cravings]

Originally Posted by Slowpoke_TX

There's an old saying that goes "the best way to get over a woman is to get under another one."

But in all seriousness:
Your feelings for her are temporary, but your self-respect is a permanent part of you.

Be careful! I made a comment like this and got an infraction for it.

[lionking]

Dodged a bullet I'd say, be glad.

[lionking]

Originally Posted by Cheesesteak Cravings

Be careful! I made a comment like this and got an infraction for it.

whoa really, things have changed around here ugh? Given my track history style of posting better watch myself lol..... can we still say "boobs"?

[lionking]

Originally Posted by rbohm

screw on your testicles,

In other words stop thinking with them and grow some.