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Old 05-20-2015, 12:52 PM
 
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That is something he should have discussed with you. That's a lot of money to spend without discussing it first.

 
Old 05-20-2015, 12:54 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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He's had 30 years to " bond" with his daughter. I'd be booking a reservation to " bond " with some sand in Hawaii or the Bahamas..... Right after my foot " bonded " with his a**!
 
Old 05-20-2015, 01:05 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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I think taking a honeymoon with your new wife should come before going on a vacation with your adult child. And that he didn't ask you first is an extra rub.
 
Old 05-20-2015, 01:07 PM
 
Location: Living on the Coast in Oxnard CA
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You are the wife. He should be bonding with you. If he has not bonded with his 30 year old daughter by now then it aint going to happen on this trip.

As a couple you both need to make financial decions together. It would seem that a trip to cancun is a cost that I would say falls into the couple decision making area. If your husband does not want to include you then he should have decided that before he said I do.
 
Old 05-20-2015, 01:12 PM
 
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Am I the only one that thinks going on a Father-Daughter trip to Cancun is a little odd?
 
Old 05-20-2015, 01:14 PM
 
Location: NY
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Am I the only one that thinks going on a Father-Daughter trip to Cancun is a little odd?
Your not. It is an odd choice considering it's reputation as the perfect destination for honeymooners and spring breakers.
 
Old 05-20-2015, 01:24 PM
 
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Your not. It is an odd choice considering it's reputation as the perfect destination for honeymooners and spring breakers.
Exactly. I'm 34 and if I was single and in Cancun, i'd rather be with a few friends and go out and meet people and have a good time.


OP....are you sure his daughter...is his daughter?
 
Old 05-20-2015, 01:32 PM
 
Location: Leaving fabulous Las Vegas, Nevada
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I think OP needs to have husband cancel vacation and schedule honeymoon.

I guess this post is very appropriately in the nonromantic relationship subforum!
 
Old 05-20-2015, 01:32 PM
 
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I don't think you are upset over nothing. The trip is taking place after your move, which is why the honeymoon was delayed.
You are the one who should be going to Cancun with your husband. Something isn't right here. Have you expressed your opinion with your husband?
 
Old 05-20-2015, 01:33 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I think you seriously need to take a chill pill.
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