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Okay... we've had enough emotionally "down" topics... how about one that will make us all look back and smile (hopefully?).
Was your "first time" all that you expected/hoped it would be?
Although I look back now (we were both mid-teens) and smile at it, it was a pretty sad situation. We were laying on her couch watching TV and she was lying in front of me but her back against my front. Her folks stepped out to go to the store (probably a bad move with teens in your house alone), and one thing led to another. Sadly, when it was all over, I was thinking (is this all there is to it? What's the big deal?).
Looking back, I realized it was probably because the true emotional attachment to her (and love) wasn't there. But it definitely wasn't what I expected.
First time was somewhat awkward and not spectacular.
Second time was better.
Here's something funny- and a bit horrifying. I realized last week that my son is the same age I was when I did it the first time.
I feel pretty strongly that he's not sexually active- there's no way he's mature enough. But I have to wonder if my mother thought the same thing when I was that age.
BF and I were both virgins and he kept asking and asking and begging and begging and it wore me down. So I said ok. As with some teens back 30+ years ago (OMG has it been THAT long - June 15th will be the 33rd anniversary) the car was the only place we could be alone, except outside and there were far too many mosquitoes for that. I remember the Simon and Garfunkel song "The Boxer" was on the radio and there's a line in it: "just a come-on from the whores on 7th Avenue." I recall feeling like I shouldn't be doing this (and I really shouldn't have) and feeling like a s*l*u*t and really not enjoying the moment at all. Second time, 6 months later, was slightly better, but this time the song "Ride Captain Ride upon your Mystery Ship" was on . I'm happy to say that that part of my life has improved at least 1000% since 33 years ago .
PS I missed my period for FOUR months after this event (at which we did use protection that had been in his wallet for years.) I was SURE I was pregnant. I wasn't, but talk about freaking me out!
I almost don't even want to tak about my first time....it sucked A**. Probably because there were no feelings between us. The second time...better.....third.....almost there.....Now that's what I'm talking about!
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It was with my BF at the time whom I loved. Well, there was a little twist to the situation, but I'm not gonna tell ya...
. I'm happy to say that that part of my life has improved at least 1000% since 33 years ago 
