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He (fiance) broke up with me from a day to another without giving me any legit reason. He proposed just three months before that, and we signed the contract of the purchase of a house just the month before. Then he instantly started to treat me like ****, got cold and distant and didn't care about me anymore at all. Still don't get what actually happened.
We were in love but she had to move away. That was the hardest because it wasn't like we had a falling out, nobody hated anybody, we just had to "consciously uncouple" for lack of a better term. We'll never know what might have been and it still stings a little, all these years later.
After being married 13 years he decided he actually DID want to have kids...something we'd discussed, and I thought we agreed that we wouldn't, BEFORE we got married. Now, 15 years later - no wife and no kids. Who knows what he really wanted....took me years to move on.
Actually I had two bad break ups. My first real boyfriend, who I was with from age 17-20, was a drug addict (extremely strong pain killers), and it took me a long time to realize that. He ended up in the rehab, and I still tried to support him. One day he got released, I was so happy, but he was back on the drugs pretty fast. In the end, I tried to forbid him to take something ever again and threw his drugs in the toilet. He completely freaked out and hit me several times, very hard. Needless to say I broke up and never saw him again.
I had two, and in all fairness they weren't all that bad:
1. First time we slept together, right after the dismount his beeper started going off (yeah his beeper, I'm old). It was his "friend" who was "going through a rough time", so he ducked out to return the call. A month later, he broke up with me out of the blue... and eventually mentioned that he started having sex with that "friend" sometime during the course of our relationship.
2. We only went out a couple of times and nothing serious was going to come of it, but a mutual friend of ours called me and said the guy was completely wasted and was going to drive home. Like I would for anyone in that situation, I went to where he was, in order to offer him a ride home. He puked all over my feet, refused the ride and went back to drinking, so I went home. Next morning, he called to chew me out and puke some more in between expletives, because apparently I was being all clingy and trying to force him to have sex (dafuk???), and was just like "Dude, I only offered you a ride home." Later he came to his senses and apologized, but I wasn't having it so he spread some naughty rumors all around town. Whatevs. Twenty years later, he's still passing out at parties and puking on people's feet.
I was cheated on and other one left me for her abusive ex. I just stopped dating.
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