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OP, unfortunately you come what you feared: the Rebound Guy. Not only that, you've become the worst kind - the never-gonna-date-you-but-I-want-you-to-give-me-lots-of-attention Rebound Guy. After your first post I knew your goose was cooked - classic effusive "pay attention to me" platonic behavior. So, in answer to your question, no she does not like you in "that way" - she's basically using you whether she knows it or not.
Some good lessons here, and we've all had to learn them the hard way:
If you got ambiguity you got nothin'.
Never fall for a girl you're not dating.
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She doesn't want to date YOU . In no time flat she'll be dating some other guy, and you're gonna be left wondering what just happened (this is also part of the learning process).
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I dunno man.. why so quick to judge... I just found out from her friends that I am the only guy she calls up and talks about.
Its true when I notice it, she texts me first every morning and calls me, I never call her. When ever I ask to hang out she will drop everything, even at like 10 at night to come hang out. She even told me that she cares about me and said "I will always be that person who will understand you"
Maybe we are being to quick to judge here?
You are her substitute for her exes' attention. JMHO.
I dont know thats why Im so confused! I really believe maybe she does like me and that she just needs time to get over her bf. But I got side tracked now when some people wrote she is not into me.. Im in a pickle here
I dont know thats why Im so confused! I really believe maybe she does like me and that she just needs time to get over her bf. But I got side tracked now when some people wrote she is not into me.. Im in a pickle here
I don't know that's why I'm so confused! I really believe maybe she does like me and that she just needs time to get over her bf. But I got side tracked now when some people wrote she is not into me.. I'm in a pickle here
OP:
You know what...
Find other things to do.
Meet other people.
Find other activities to do.
Just busy yourself.
If she wants you to hang out with her, and you have plans, tell her that.
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She does.. She asked me to hang out with her alone many times.
Don't put up with treatment like this. It seems she wants a friend, but is unable to just come out and say that, if you don't want to be friends (without ulterior motives) than move on.
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If she wants you to hang out with her, and you have plans, tell her that.
Then see what happens.
This is actually good advice! But what do you mean by "Then see what happens."
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. In no time flat she'll be dating some other guy, and you're gonna be left wondering what just happened (this is also part of the learning process).
