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When you have so many options that cost less than twenty bucks, why limit yourself to a .89 cent - $1.30 cup of coffee? I don't see a reason and I get to enjoy my evening whether it works out or not. I'm a big eater and always have been. I'm weeding out women who don't eat and pick.....then starve beforehand!
That's what I'm saying. It comes across a cheap. And often it is. I like to eat too. So I get a dinner - or the other suggestions, and have a drink. Maybe there was chemistry - maybe not. Either way I don't look like a cheap jerk and there is a lot more to talk about with decent background music and the absence of glaring lights.
My last date first date with a woman was over 25 years ago. I took her for middle eastern food - just appetizers and wine - and we ended up ordering entrees and staying for desert. I like women who enjoy good food, and a refined atmosphere.
I dont like coffee. And a date sitting at a coffee table drinking coffee talking about ourselves sounds boring. I want more active dates.
A churrascarria on dance night! Now thats what I call a date.
I like active dates as well. If there is an obvious activity I know that both of us will enjoy on a first date, I will go that direction. If I don't have enough information to figure that out and I still like the woman, I'll do the standard drinks date in a nice lounge.
OP-I read in there that you are 19, soon to be 20. Not being 21 is a limiting factor in dating. I'm sure you are also occasionally dating men over 21. I'm not impressed with the Applebee's idea for a first date on his part, though that isn't your problem. Meal first dates have their own issues. However, I hope things go well for you on that date.
I love coffee and would be open to it. I do agree with the poster who said that ladies like to get dressed up for a date, I know I do. But other than having to dress down a bit, I think it would be a nice way to get to know someone.
Guy yea
Me:Well I like you and we can do something else
Guy Yea I rather go for a lunch date
Me:Sure,where do you want to go?
Guy:Applebee's
Me sure
Guy: I can't wait Sweetie pie.
Guy:You seems wicked cool
Me:wicked cool? Lol
Guy:Yep
Me:Thank you
Guy: Do you want to meet up on Tuesday?
Me:Sure, How about we meet up for coffee ?
Few minutes later
Guy:You don't like me?
Me: I do
Guy: When people really like each don't go on coffee dates
Me:Oh
How do you "really like" someone you've never met?
The most romantic first date I've ever had was at a cafe.
The venue wasn't really the important part. At all.
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