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Let's not forget, you always have the option to improve your looks/ attitude/ education/ skills, and thus your "score".
Or you could move to a different part of the country. I've lived in Miami and now Southern California and have had to take the resulting blow to my rating in stride...
In other words, you settled. If you could get an attractive version of the same guy, you would much prefer that.
I was actually very attracted to him, but I think others would not have found him very physically attractive.
Before him I dated a guy who was very attractive and also had a good personality, yet I liked the other guy better. As others have said attraction goes way beyond looks.
You are either REALLY inexperienced with dating or you're over thinking the entire thing.
I understand it can be frustrating but coming up with silly theories and trying to convince yourself they are true is not going to help you at all.
That rating system is nothing but nonsense.
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
This. All of it.
Yeah, everyone is an individual. It is not practical to apply these blanket rules to the dating process. Are we suppose to apply number rankings to each person's individual attributes and then cross reference them to the dating preferences of potential dating partners? How would this be implemented?
Yeah, everyone is an individual. It is not practical to apply these blanket rules to the dating process. Are we suppose to apply number rankings to each person's individual attributes and then cross reference them to the dating preferences of potential dating partners? How would this be implemented?
You don't have the reference manual? I got mine at orientation.
Yeah, I keep it simple. Does she give me horny feelings or not? Yes or no? Voila.
I'd imagine not. I doubt that midget from Game of Thrones is pulling legit supermodels, with or without his "status".
His name is Peter Dinklage and he has dwarfism...the term 'midget' is considered insulting.
And he's quite good looking and with an interesting personality....and he's married to a lovely woman and has a daughter...no superficial supermodels after his fame needed.
Where can I find out what my rating is? Is it like under my hair like Damien's 666 from The Omen? Is it on my birth certificate somewhere? And since I'm adopted, would it be on the original and not the one with my adopted name? Is there an 800 number I can call? Should I look for something in the mail like when I get a new PIN from my bank?? This is all SO confusing! And if I'm not happy with my rating, who would I bribe to get it changed?
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Let's not forget, you always have the option to improve your looks/ attitude/ education/ skills, and thus your "score". 
