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Old 07-24-2015, 09:29 PM
 
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So my first post here. Discovered girlfriend of 4 years spent 3 nights with someone new in a small town. She denies it but I am certain, period. Confronted both & they lied. Now broken up but we all hang in same small town. Its getting ugly as she still denies it but hangs with him at beach where I hang out in my face. How does one deal with this, it sucks.
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Old 07-24-2015, 09:31 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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So my first post here. Discovered girlfriend of 4 years spent 3 nights with someone new in a small town. She denies it but I am certain, period. Confronted both & they lied. Now broken up but we all hang in same small town. Its getting ugly as she still denies it but hangs with him at beach where I hang out in my face. How does one deal with this, it sucks.
It does suck.

How are you "certain"?
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Old 07-24-2015, 09:32 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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It does suck.

How are you "certain"?

I think the part where she spent 3 nights with him
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Old 07-24-2015, 09:34 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I think the part where she spent 3 nights with him
So he was there?
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Old 07-24-2015, 09:36 PM
 
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Let it go. Take the higher ground. You will find someone new.
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Old 07-24-2015, 09:49 PM
 
Location: Arvada, CO
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Would it have made difference if she cheated in a big town?
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Old 07-24-2015, 10:33 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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Would it have made difference if she cheated in a big town?
Is that a serious question?
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Old 07-24-2015, 10:54 PM
 
Location: Arvada, CO
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Is that a serious question?
Genuinely interested if human settlement patterns of the town in question may have had an effect on her fidelity.
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Old 07-24-2015, 10:56 PM
 
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Genuinely interested if human settlement patterns of the town in question may have had an effect on her fidelity.
I think he brings it up more for the fact that an extremely embarrassing event is bad enough in the relative anonymity of a big city, but much worse in a small town where everyone will know.
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Old 07-24-2015, 10:58 PM
 
Location: Arvada, CO
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I think he brings it up more for the fact that an extremely embarrassing event is bad enough in the relative anonymity of a big city, but much worse in a small town where everyone will know.
Given that fact, OP will know rest of town's dirt as well.

Him being the cheated, does not demonize him in the slightest. Makes her look quite bad though, easy money, as they say.
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