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I took that test a while ago and I don't remember what I got, but I think it was similar to INTJ. It can suck though, can't it? Not having people who get you? Lol. Oh well. I like being alone but at times it gets boring and I wish I had more people to have fun with. Seems so many people just bore me, or don't get me, or both.
Deep inside I am an introvert. I really did not like most of the people in my Engineering classes because I always thought they were super weird but the irony is that perhaps I was one of them.
Like Mikala said, I am from being socially awkward, I am very good at relating to people superficially and making acquaintances, I am a very well liked person but most people don't know my secret: I am a loner.
Usually when I tell them that, most people don't believe mostly because I have created my own defense mechanisms against being introverted: One of them is being funny and the other one is "pretending" to be outgoing in social situations.
I can totally relate to what Mikala said, she described it well.
Maybe you were offended at the overweight bit. Are you overweight and it struck a nerve? That's the only real problem i cited out of any of them. Other than that I just didn't click with them. I never said they all had problems.
Deep inside I am an introvert. I really did not like most of the people in my Engineering classes because I always thought they were super weird but the irony is that perhaps I was one of them.
Like Mikala said, I am from being socially awkward, I am very good at relating to people superficially and making acquaintances, I am a very well liked person but most people don't know my secret: I am a loner.
Usually when I tell them that, most people don't believe mostly because I have created my own defense mechanisms against being introverted: One of them is being funny and the other one is "pretending" to be outgoing in social situations.
I can totally relate to what Mikala said, she described it well.
I can relate. I've actually been told that I seem like an outgoing person when people first meet me. Maybe it's just the way I talk or my appearance, but nope, I'm not super outgoing and I am a bit of a loner, always have been. But I have had close friends at different periods of my life so not a complete loner. I had good friends for nearly 10 years but I moved away and we slowly lost touch.
Introverts are not "pretty outgoing"? Maybe you learn more towards extroversion then.
Nope, always been tested as INTJ.
I just learned how to form relationships. I'm an INTJ, I studied what I perceived to a problem, and then I fixed it.
I am NOT shy, and I've learned how to have a more open personality, though it can strain me.
I learned "cocktail talk" for lack of a better term. I had to develop in these areas because I needed it for business.
I socialize quite a bit, but then I need to lock myself in a room with book.
Like now I'm running stressed. Had 2 meetings, 2 parties at my house, a GF slumber party and a few other social things in the past two weeks, tonight headed into town for drinks and dancing with friends and stay the night there.
I DON'T WANT TO GO!!!! /whimper
But I will. Next week I'm locking myself in the house.
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I just learned how to form relationships. I'm an INTJ, I studied what I perceived to a problem, and then I fixed it.
I am NOT shy, and I've learned how to have a more open personality, though it can strain me.
I learned "cocktail talk" for lack of a better term. I had to develop in these areas because I needed it for business.
I socialize quite a bit, but then I need to lock myself in a room with book.
Like now I'm running stressed. Had 2 meetings, 2 parties at my house, a GF slumber party and a few other social things in the past two weeks, tonight headed into town for drinks and dancing with friends and stay the night there.
I DON'T WANT TO GO!!!! /whimper
But I will. Next week I'm locking myself in the house.
Yeah... I wouldn't do that unless I really REALLY liked the friend. Otherwise hell no.
Yeah... I wouldn't do that unless I really REALLY liked the friend. Otherwise hell no.
One of my best friends. We were inseparable for about 2 years after my husband died. Actually, she is someone who greatly influenced me. She is a super open personality and wears her heart on her sleeve. I learned a lot from her.
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I am rather outgoing, and I'm fond of introverts with wry sense of humour. I just can't see them enough to satisfy me.
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