Is this controlling/ emotionally abusive behavior? (dating, girls, like, money)
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I just dated a guy who told me not to buy certain things, like diet soda because "white trash drink it" ( even he smokes (white trash??)and I have my own money.. ). He would say I looked "hotter" wearing a certain outfit or my hair a certain way. He told me girls don't fart because it ruins the image that they're "hot and clean". He told me girls should cook and clean (because after being with him for a whopping month I had never cooked for him, so he was complaining). He told me no one else would put up with me. He made a huge deal out of me driving his car to the store when he was drunk.Is any of this emotional abuse?
. He told me girls should cook and clean (because after being with him for a whopping month I had never cooked for him, so he was complaining). He told me no one else would put up with me.
I just dated a guy who told me not to buy certain things, like diet soda because "white trash drink it" ( even he smokes (white trash??)and I have my own money.. ). He would say I looked "hotter" wearing a certain outfit or my hair a certain way. He told me girls don't fart because it ruins the image that they're "hot and clean". He told me girls should cook and clean (because after being with him for a whopping month I had never cooked for him, so he was complaining). He told me no one else would put up with me. He made a huge deal out of me driving his car to the store when he was drunk.Is any of this emotional abuse?
Some of it. Most of it is a sign that he's just an idiot.
I just dated a guy who told me not to buy certain things, like diet soda because "white trash drink it" ( even he smokes (white trash??)and I have my own money.. ). He would say I looked "hotter" wearing a certain outfit or my hair a certain way. He told me girls don't fart because it ruins the image that they're "hot and clean". He told me girls should cook and clean (because after being with him for a whopping month I had never cooked for him, so he was complaining). He told me no one else would put up with me. He made a huge deal out of me driving his car to the store when he was drunk.Is any of this emotional abuse?
He sounds dreamy
Unas right all this only after a month??
Do yourself a favour and get shot of him ( unless of course that's what you look for in a man....... Lol)
Why on earth are you with this guy? I don't know that's abusive but he certainly sounds like an a-hole.
We had a big fight last night and I left ( after he said something rude yet again.) we had not been dating a long time so I didn't know a lot of this about him until recently (it had only been a month).
Emotional manipulators are good at making it seem like things are your fault.
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