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I met this guy [27M] at a bar about 3 weeks ago. (I'm a 21 year old female)
I don't want to get bashed on here for being a **** or being 'easy' because I made an honest mistake that I didn't realize was a bad choice at the time and I understand that now. I went with my gut feeling and my gut was wrong.
Basically, this guy and I have been texting every single day since we met and had gone on 2 dates. He had slept over my house after both dates but all we did was talk/cuddle.
Then on Friday night we had sex. It just happened. He left my house Saturday morning and didn't text me all day even though he said he would. I texted him at 9pm saying hey and he said he was out with his friends etc. He never replied to my last text after about 10-12 exchanges. I just got a text from him 20 minutes ago but I didn't read it and I don't want to respond regardless.
I can already sense that I've been played. I don't think this guy wants anything for me anymore except sex and I feel that way because of how his texting pattern changed since the sex. I just don't understand why he would waste his time texting me for two weeks if he just wanted a one night stand. Thoughts?
So if I understand this, he left Saturday morning. You texted him Sat night (last night), you texted back and forth 10 or 12 times. Its now Sunday around 5 pm, and your all bent out of shape because he just texted you?
What is wrong with you? Do you demand a text every couple of hours, or you have a hissy fit? You just texted him last night, for gods sake. He may actually have a life where he does something. Its not like its been a week since you've texted with him.
You've gone on 2 dates. You arent his girlfriend. You've had 2 dates.
Or did all this happen a week ago? Or a month ago? Dont tell me it just happened yesterday, because if it did, you've got some real issues.
So if I understand this, he left Saturday morning. You texted him Sat night (last night), you texted back and forth 10 or 12 times. Its now Sunday around 5 pm, and your all bent out of shape because he just texted you?
What is wrong with you? Do you demand a text every couple of hours, or you have a hissy fit? You just texted him last night, for gods sake. He may actually have a life where he does something. Its not like its been a week since you've texted with him.
You've gone on 2 dates. You arent his girlfriend. You've had 2 dates.
Or did all this happen a week ago? Or a month ago? Dont tell me it just happened yesterday, because if it did, you've got some real issues.
I guess so. I asked him if he could bring me adderal yesterday because I have 3 exams this week and his text said "Hey sorry I've been busy but I can come by later and give you the pills."
I don't know maybe I'm over reacting? I just don't think I want to have sex with again because I can see myself getting attached and not being okay with a casual relationship.
yes you are over reacting.
1: you got used for sex, it happens, get over it and learn from the experience
2: stop with the drugs unless a doctor prescribes them. abusing drugs will only get you into more trouble
3: now get on with life and be good to yourself first.
I think you should be glad you didn't get this text.
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