Top lessons I have learned in the C-D Relationships forum (younger, family)

[Three Wolves In Snow]

Originally Posted by jade408

1. All women need to do to get a date is walk outside
2. The only men who get dates/relationships are rich or hot
3. If a women doesn't accept your advances she thinks you are a creep
4. Chivalry is for suckers
5. Men no longer want relationships because casual sex is easy to get
6. There is no other benefit to having a relationship is access to sex
7. There is one universal definition of attractive

What have you learned in this forum?

I have learned that:

~ If I turn a guy down, it's because I'm bitter and hung up on an ex. (This cracks me up more than anything else.)

~ If I don't appreciate someone dictating how I should feel, or how I should look, I'm a feminazi.

~ I'm only "hot" if I wear heels.

~ I'm only after money.

~ If I go to the store without dressing to the 9s, I'm no longer "caring about myself".

~ If I point out what I do like in a guy and why, I'm lying.

~ If I appreciate a guy making an effort over guys who make zero effort, I'm a control freak who wants a dissertation about the economical and psychological ramifications that the Joad family had to face, and I'm high end and think too much of myself.

~ If I don't "settle", I think too highly of myself.

~ If I appreciate and understand that men and woman simply are different, there's just no denying that, I'm a submissive weakling who doesn't understand women's rights, and should be ashamed of myself.

~ If I don't date often, or I'm not in a relationship constantly, there's "something wrong with me".

~ If my bio mother is a narcissistic wench who hates her children, then that must mean I'll be the exact same.

~ I'm supposed to make a lot of money, keep everything clean and organized, do all the shopping, make all of the meals, know how to do things by myself and for myself, wear the right type of clothing at all times, but I'm never, ever allowed to spend any money because otherwise I'm a gold digger, and if I don't accept a man's help, because I'm supposed to be doing all of this by myself, then I'm too independent and a feminazi.

~ I have to weigh 93 pounds to be considered "worthwhile".

~ I'm only allowed to have opinions that agree with guys, otherwise I'm a "stubborn, hateful, feminazi".

[vigueur2014]

Originally Posted by jade408

1. All women need to do to get a date is walk outside
2. The only men who get dates/relationships are rich or hot
3. If a women doesn't accept your advances she thinks you are a creep
4. Chivalry is for suckers
5. Men no longer want relationships because casual sex is easy to get
6. There is no other benefit to having a relationship is access to sex
7. There is one universal definition of attractive

What have you learned in this forum?

Lol good thing I get entertainment here instead of advice....but I know what you mean... Many beliefs here are total misconception

[oh-eve]

I have learned that

- you have to apply the appropriate amount of pressure if you hug somebody
- there are more virgins 30 and older as I would have ever guessed
- a lunch appt. with a friend can be questioned over 10 pages.
- people who get beaten down the worst by CD keep opening more threads with the same questions
- inexperienced or just young people who never had a long relationship or none at all have the most advice to give about relationships.
- OLD really IS cruel to everybody.
- no matter what statement you make, some specific CD people always beat you down just because.
- if you get beaten down or receive strong statements on CD, you most likely find those people posting about their mental diseases in the mental health forum.
- I could get many free meals through OLD if I would have less morals
- everybody who posts on CD has a high libido.

[Adi from the Brunswicks]

I've learned how fickle people truly are, and I'll no longer trust anyone other than the supreme lord.

JAI SHREE VENKATESHWARA !!!!!!!!

[Tia 914]

Originally Posted by Adi from the Brunswicks

I've learned how fickle people truly are, and I'll no longer trust anyone other than the supreme lord.

JAI SHREE VENKATESHWARA !!!!!!!!

Don't give up on people and life yet

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by Tia 914

Don't give up on people and life yet

I thought he meant trusting the good people on here LOL

[Auraliea]

Originally Posted by newdixiegirl

You're a smart girl, Auraliea. Have I told you that before?

Omg stop it! You're making me blush!!!

[onihC]

After reading a thread not so long ago and seeing how CD female posters get hit on multiple times throughout the week, I learned that all CD female posters are drop-dead attractive and in great shape and those who are “older” supposedly look as if they were 20.

[Tia 914]

Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30

I thought he meant trusting the good people on here LOL

One thing I've learned: regardless of what I post, either someone will take it wrong and/or I'll get jabbed over it.

Maybe returning to CD wasn't such a good idea.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by Tia 914

One thing I've learned: regardless of what I post, either someone will take it wrong and/or I'll get jabbed over it.

Maybe returning to CD wasn't such a good idea.

Anyone in mind



On a serious note that's a good piont Tia I've had that myself