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Old 10-13-2015, 06:44 PM
 
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My Ideal woman

Must Have sexual comp ability with me

Is loving and affectionate for the most part.

Is Not a workaholic ( Does not work too many long hours)

Must Have a decent personality ( yes Im very open minded about hobbies where we can go and what we can do )

Have a job ( Preferably 30k and above would be nice but not required NO I WON't date someone that wants to be a stay at home wife)
So what sort of freak are you that you can't find someone sexually comparable?

And define a decent personality....the majority of people are decent enough..

Missing something here...
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Old 10-13-2015, 06:45 PM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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I've never been perfect so I've never expected perfection. Part of a working relationship is accepting what you can't change about your partner.
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Old 10-13-2015, 07:16 PM
 
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So what sort of freak are you that you can't find someone sexually comparable?

And define a decent personality....the majority of people are decent enough..

Missing something here...
Someone who wants as much sex as I do a bit more or less that comes close enough to what I find comparabale instead of forcing someone to like sex or have sex with me to keep me

Decent personality : really for some most part just treat me with respect and have a good attitude not be like verbally abusive or a bully. Basically someone who is a sweetheart at least 70 percent of the time
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Old 10-13-2015, 07:18 PM
 
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I've never been perfect so I've never expected perfection. Part of a working relationship is accepting what you can't change about your partner.
Yes and thats why I want to find someone that meets my requirement i don't think i ask too much thou but I do know what I want due to me dating multiple woman in the past
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Old 10-13-2015, 07:20 PM
 
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I have become more selective on choosing the right woman for me.
I pretty much am seeking that perfect woman.
Am I being too picky?
I don't expect perfection but I think I am being too picky

Which is it? Can't have both.

You want to be picky then be picky, just don't expect a short, easy path to a relationship and happiness.

PS ~~ If you seek perfection you will never find it.

The good news is if someone seeks perfection in you, they will never find that either but they might just love you anyway......
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Old 10-13-2015, 07:20 PM
 
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^^^ This!

But if you want to be picky, then be picky. Find what you really want. Just the question is... do you know what you want?
I don't think Im that picky thou based on the requirements I put

I would say thou I have had a few bad rotten dates with a bad attitude and some who were workaholics I try to be specific on what I want as well as open minded.
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Old 10-13-2015, 07:21 PM
 
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Which is it? Can't have both.

You want to be picky then be picky, just don't expect a short, easy path to a relationship and happiness.

PS ~~ If you seek perfection you will never find it.

The good news is if someone seeks perfection in you, they will never find that either but they might just love you anyway......
No I don't seek perfection at all
Just someone that meets a few of my requirements to as close as possible.
whom I can get along with
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Old 10-13-2015, 07:23 PM
 
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Someone who wants as much sex as I do a bit more or less that comes close enough to what I find comparabale instead of forcing someone to like sex or have sex with me to keep me

Decent personality : really for some most part just treat me with respect and have a good attitude not be like verbally abusive or a bully. Basically someone who is a sweetheart at least 70 percent of the time

Notice the order you listed these things?

You do not want long term, you want sex and nothing more......
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Old 10-13-2015, 08:13 PM
 
Location: CA
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There is nothing extraordinary about what you describe. Tons of single women meet those standards.

Are you truly unable to meet them or do you turn them off?
Or are you choosing to blow things out of proportion in order to disqualify women?
For example, are you overly sensitive and interpreting innocent things as having a "bad attitude" or even projecting onto some women?
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Old 10-13-2015, 09:13 PM
 
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Do you have problems picking the right women or are you really picky?

Are you attracted to women who are not attracted to you?

Too vague OP. Need more information
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