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Old 01-19-2016, 06:16 PM
 
Location: Pa
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No 3 hours is too long, trust me!
Lol most men last 2O mins top.
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Old 01-19-2016, 06:45 PM
 
Location: Sputnik Planitia
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Lol most men last 2O mins top.
actually the average duration for intercourse is supposed to be 3-7 minutes and some do not even last 1-2 minutes...so when people claim they are having sex for 3 hours I find that ridiculous. I believe I even read in a medical article that a man is supposed to be erect only for 30-40 minutes maximum at a time otherwise it puts strain on the part due to the blood pressure inside it...so yes, 3 hours would not only be very abnormal it would be dangerous.
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Old 01-19-2016, 09:37 PM
 
Location: Pa
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actually the average duration for intercourse is supposed to be 3-7 minutes and some do not even last 1-2 minutes...so when people claim they are having sex for 3 hours I find that ridiculous. I believe I even read in a medical article that a man is supposed to be erect only for 30-40 minutes maximum at a time otherwise it puts strain on the part due to the blood pressure inside it...so yes, 3 hours would not only be very abnormal it would be dangerous.
Foreplay man. Clothes off. Prep. Actual sex.
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Old 01-19-2016, 10:05 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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It depends on the age, in your 20s, yes, you must have some health issue. In your 50s, yes, it seems ok.
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Old 01-20-2016, 10:08 AM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Foreplay, during play, after play, between play...I have had, in my younger days, guys who would pound away doing the PIV thing for hours, and that got tedious, boring, and uncomfortable. I find that more than half an hour straight of that act itself, is just not fun anymore, no matter how big or small, and no matter what kind of awesome "moves" a guy thinks he has, and no matter how much we are into each other.

I'm thinking of the Chappelle Show and that sketch where the woman has a sign that says, "WRAP IT UP." And I HATE it when guys deliberately break rhythm to control themselves, and keep going longer. 10-20 minutes, is fantastic.

However, I very much enjoy hours and hours of "sex" with a lover. I don't like to just say "foreplay" because the best have done stuff before, between sessions, and after. And our activities are way too intense and awesome to be considered a mere appetizer with PIV as the main course. It's more like an ongoing sexual buffet...

The lover I have who might could use some kind of supplement, he loves to spend 4-5 hours doing things to me, and it's not just a matter of getting me off, it's a full sensory exploration, it's lots of things. And I enjoy playing with and stimulating him even if he's not fully hard or likely to finish...so long as he gives me some feedback that what I'm doing feels very good. Because really, that is the point. Making each other feel good. A blue pill would be just another interesting novelty in the toybag for us, I think. I don't feel that it's necessary, just intriguing.
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Old 01-20-2016, 10:20 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Foreplay, during play, after play, between play...I have had, in my younger days, guys who would pound away doing the PIV thing for hours, and that got tedious, boring, and uncomfortable. I find that more than half an hour straight of that act itself, is just not fun anymore, no matter how big or small, and no matter what kind of awesome "moves" a guy thinks he has, and no matter how much we are into each other.

I'm thinking of the Chappelle Show and that sketch where the woman has a sign that says, "WRAP IT UP." And I HATE it when guys deliberately break rhythm to control themselves, and keep going longer. 10-20 minutes, is fantastic.


However, I very much enjoy hours and hours of "sex" with a lover. I don't like to just say "foreplay" because the best have done stuff before, between sessions, and after. And our activities are way too intense and awesome to be considered a mere appetizer with PIV as the main course. It's more like an ongoing sexual buffet...

The lover I have who might could use some kind of supplement, he loves to spend 4-5 hours doing things to me, and it's not just a matter of getting me off, it's a full sensory exploration, it's lots of things. And I enjoy playing with and stimulating him even if he's not fully hard or likely to finish...so long as he gives me some feedback that what I'm doing feels very good. Because really, that is the point. Making each other feel good. A blue pill would be just another interesting novelty in the toybag for us, I think. I don't feel that it's necessary, just intriguing.
Ah, the One Trick Pony
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Old 01-20-2016, 11:05 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Ah, the One Trick Pony
I think a lot of men learn their "tricks" from porn. Porn is notoriously geared toward men, for the most part. So most foreplay in porn is some chick orally working on a guy and then viola, it's log jamming time and money shots for the finale.

Most men that have been around the block realize that intercourse is just a part of it all and a good chunk of women don't O with just that alone anyways. so whatever, let those guys out there that think the sun rises and falls on their junk, let those two pump chumps do their thing while the rest of smarter men handle business.....LOL...
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Old 01-20-2016, 11:15 AM
 
Location: Forests of Maine
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actually the average duration for intercourse is supposed to be 3-7 minutes and some do not even last 1-2 minutes...so when people claim they are having sex for 3 hours I find that ridiculous. I believe I even read in a medical article that a man is supposed to be erect only for 30-40 minutes maximum at a time otherwise it puts strain on the part due to the blood pressure inside it...so yes, 3 hours would not only be very abnormal it would be dangerous.
When I use the meds that I have been prescribed following my prostate cancer surgery, erections last greater than 4 hours.

Not talking about the actual duration of sex obviously. Just how long the meds make erections to last.
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Old 01-20-2016, 11:19 AM
 
Location: Mars
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Taking viagra to have sex is better than no sex with your significant other.
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Old 01-20-2016, 10:05 PM
 
Location: The State Of California
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No 3 hours is too long, trust me!
Amen.... a man has to make love to his wife/love her three or four times in order to last 3 hours , and it's certainly is not non stop PIV there's a lot of fore & afterplay to.
I was in a long running bout of carnal knowledge with
my wife , and out of the blue she say to me won't you
hurry up and finish , so I start to pumping as fast and
hard as possible so I could finish quick which I did and
After I Finish My WIFE Said To Me ( So You Want TO ))
" POUND ME TOO.. ... LOL..

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