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I have always thought that wanting to have something on your body changed that's not a deformity is a bad idea. I get having moles removed or a hair lip fixed, but it just seems like breast implants or a face lift is changing who you are.
My GF currently wants butt injections, which is something I have heard a lot if bad things about. On top of that, she doesn't need it. She already has a really big butt. She's built like a less petite version of Kim K. She's going to look abnormal if she gets this done IMO. I just don't get it.
She says that she wants to fit into her close better, and she would like even more curves. She says that she already spends time in the gym working on her body, and that this isn't anything different.
I question if there isn't some an underlining mental issue going on, which makes me want to talk her out of this. She has always been what one could call an attention seeker in many ways, as well as a huge flirt. I'm not really the jealous type, and I've always trusted her, so it's never been an issue. My concern is why she feels she needs to alter her body. Especially a part of her body that doesn't need anything done that already draws a ton of attention.
Is this a bad sign? I would like to hear the opinions of other women, as I don't think most guys can relate to this stuff as well. Every guy I've talked to has said "she's bad news."
I have always thought that wanting to have something on your body changed that's not a deformity is a bad idea. I get having moles removed or a hair lip fixed, but it just seems like breast implants or a face lift is changing who you are.
My GF currently wants butt injections, which is something I have heard a lot if bad things about. On top of that, she doesn't need it. She already has a really big butt. She's built like a less petite version of Kim K. She's going to look abnormal if she gets this done IMO. I just don't get it.
She says that she wants to fit into her close better, and she would like even more curves. She says that she already spends time in the gym working on her body, and that this isn't anything different.
I question if there isn't some an underlining mental issue going on, which makes me want to talk her out of this. She has always been what one could call an attention seeker in many ways, as well as a huge flirt. I'm not really the jealous type, and I've always trusted her, so it's never been an issue. My concern is why she feels she needs to alter her body. Especially a part of her body that doesn't need anything done that already draws a ton of attention.
Is this a bad sign? I would like to hear the opinions of other women, as I don't think most guys can relate to this stuff as well. Every guy I've talked to has said "she's bad news."
yep, sounds like it.
I keep seeing a girl at the gym who had done something to her butt. The extra something in there looks ugly, like it doesn't belong there. She gets a lot of attention - I think mostly bad attention.
Is this a bad sign? I would like to hear the opinions of other women, as I don't think most guys can relate to this stuff as well. Every guy I've talked to has said "she's bad news."
Does she get a lot of comments about her derriere?
You said she likes attention. Her thought is likely, "if some is good, more must be better!"
I was going to ask how old she is, but either way, it sets off some warning flags. I have a friend who had breast augmentation for the same reason your GF stated - she wanted to fit into her clothes better. I think she went from an A to a C and she does look better. She has no desire to go any further and I respect her choice.
In this case, yeah, the warning bells are going off.
I have always thought that wanting to have something on your body changed that's not a deformity is a bad idea. I get having moles removed or a hair lip fixed, but it just seems like breast implants or a face lift is changing who you are.
My GF currently wants butt injections, which is something I have heard a lot if bad things about. On top of that, she doesn't need it. She already has a really big butt. She's built like a less petite version of Kim K. She's going to look abnormal if she gets this done IMO. I just don't get it.
She says that she wants to fit into her close better, and she would like even more curves. She says that she already spends time in the gym working on her body, and that this isn't anything different.
I question if there isn't some an underlining mental issue going on, which makes me want to talk her out of this. She has always been what one could call an attention seeker in many ways, as well as a huge flirt. I'm not really the jealous type, and I've always trusted her, so it's never been an issue. My concern is why she feels she needs to alter her body. Especially a part of her body that doesn't need anything done that already draws a ton of attention.
Is this a bad sign? I would like to hear the opinions of other women, as I don't think most guys can relate to this stuff as well. Every guy I've talked to has said "she's bad news."
Her body, her choice and it is your choice to stay with her or not.
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My ex-wife started with breast augmentation and ended with lipo-suction. By the end of it I had spent a great deal of money. When the martial assets are split (I realize you're not married at this point) you get nothing for the money spent on cosmetic surgery. I will never be with anyone that has so much vanity that they feel the need to look a certain way ever again. I would advise you to not take any of this behavior lightly.
My GF currently wants butt injections, which is something I have heard a lot if bad things about. On top of that, she doesn't need it. She already has a really big butt. She's built like a less petite version of Kim K. She's going to look abnormal if she gets this done IMO. I just don't get it.
Tell her that she will look bloody stupid if she has that done. Anyway, people naturally put weight on, the older they get - she'll have a fat arse before she'll know it.
Every guy I've talked to has said "she's bad news."
She sounds like an attention w***3 at the very least, but if every guy you talk to says she's bad news, sounds like you could drop the "attention" part.
A less petite Kim K? That's a good sized girl. No reputable doctor is going to augment someone that size, so she'll be left with the less than desirable doctors.
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