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I guess the mystery is, how can a man always make a woman feel good?
Always? Never. Even the friend in the post you quoted failed a lot, I'm sure. He just succeeded more than most.
I know a few guys (I can think of 3 off the top of my head) that have that natural ability to pick women up. But even they fail....A LOT. There simply isn't an equivalent supply and demand when it comes to casual sex.
But those 3 guys fit VERY similar, close to exact profiles.
Women want sex as much as we do but it isn't a lifestyle I really wanted to carry on so I have stopped more so recently.
Sex, maybe. Casual sex? Not a chance. The topic is discussed to death, and I know I'm not convincing anybody one way or another (or vice versa), but if we're talking "getting laid at bars", that's casual sex, and thus, in the context of the OP, no...women do not "want sex as much as we do".
Sex, maybe. Casual sex? Not a chance. The topic is discussed to death, and I know I'm not convincing anybody one way or another (or vice versa), but if we're talking "getting laid at bars", that's casual sex, and thus, in the context of the OP, no...women do not "want sex as much as we do".
I'm afraid I may have to agree with him on this one. Whether or not it's because of the stigma that women get or something else, it seems to be the case.
The question is, how can a man make women feel good, especially if women seem to have an attitude to begin with? I just don't feel like getting past whatever wall some women have up or if they seem to just not like me to begin with, I really don't feel like trying to "get them to warm up to me."
Sex, maybe. Casual sex? Not a chance. The topic is discussed to death, and I know I'm not convincing anybody one way or another (or vice versa), but if we're talking "getting laid at bars", that's casual sex, and thus, in the context of the OP, no...women do not "want sex as much as we do".
If you don't buy it honestly you are being delusional.
The question is, how can a man make women feel good, especially if women seem to have an attitude to begin with? I just don't feel like getting past whatever wall some women have up or if they seem to just not like me to begin with, I really don't feel like trying to "get them to warm up to me."
This is your prototypical "charisma" that so often talked about, and is CRAZY difficult to give direction on. Best that most of us can do for you is to offer examples, but it's about the furthest from step by step directions as you can get...it just doesn't work that way.
The second half of your post is EXACTLY WHAT CHARISMA DOES. "not feeling like getting past it" doesn't do anything for you...simply put, not only do you have to get past it no matter what, but most of the success comes from not viewing it as something to get past in the first place (confused yet?)
Women have their guard up, and rightfully so, there's a lot of idiots out there. Can't blame them for that.
In popular culture you always see men score at bars or in clubs, but how many men actually manage this? Are we talking about a small portion or is this actually a common thing?
I would hope none. People can meet each other at bars, but should go somewhere private to get laid.
I'm afraid I may have to agree with him on this one. Whether or not it's because of the stigma that women get or something else, it seems to be the case.
The question is, how can a man make women feel good, especially if women seem to have an attitude to begin with? I just don't feel like getting past whatever wall some women have up or if they seem to just not like me to begin with, I really don't feel like trying to "get them to warm up to me."
Are you certain that all women have an attitude, or is it that you're not very attuned to approaching the women who would be receptive to you?
Are you certain that all women have an attitude, or is it that you're not very attuned to approaching the women who would be receptive to you?
I don't think what I said translated to all women having an attitude.
I'm also just saying that I don't feel like jumping through hoops or going through hell and high water to make a woman feel good if she gives me a cold shoulder from the jump. Some guys may see that as a challenge and want to "wear her down", but I'm more of the spiteful type, so I may either give someone the same kind of attitude they give me or... only speak to them with some type of ulterior motive.
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Even the friend in the post you quoted failed a lot, I'm sure. He just succeeded more than most.