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Old 11-10-2015, 08:07 AM
 
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Two part question...

1. What should the very next interaction you have with your date be?

2. How long before asking for a second date and how do you do it?

Usually, I just send a text the next day asking to meet again, but I don't think this is the best way to go about this.
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Old 11-10-2015, 08:17 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Two part question...

1. What should the very next interaction you have with your date be?

2. How long before asking for a second date and how do you do it?

Usually, I just send a text the next day asking to meet again, but I don't think this is the best way to go about this.
Someone's already started a thread today with the same question!!! LOL

But here goes......

1. After I've kissed her good night and we've gone out separate ways I always text her saying " give me a text when you get home so I know you got home safely " that way they know your sweet

2. I DONT send a text asking to see her again!, i always ring the next day just to say hello and see what mood she's in if a happy one and seems pleased that I've rung I then organised a further date.

100% ring and ask her out mate it adds a more personal touch and shows you actually WANT to see her again
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Old 11-10-2015, 08:18 AM
 
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1. netflix and chill

2. within a couple days
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Old 11-10-2015, 08:21 AM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Someone's already started a thread today with the same question!!! LOL

But here goes......

1. After I've kissed her good night and we've gone out separate ways I always text her saying " give me a text when you get home so I know you got home safely " that way they know your sweet

2. I DONT send a text asking to see her again!, i always ring the next day just to say hello and see what mood she's in if a happy one and seems pleased that I've rung I then organised a further date.

100% ring and ask her out mate it adds a more personal touch and shows you actually WANT to see her again
Perfect. I love it when dates are like "let me know you got home safe." Totally a gentleman move.
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Old 11-10-2015, 09:38 AM
 
Location: Raleigh, North Carolina
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When I was dating, I would base my request for a second date on the way the first date ended.

If the date was fun/nice and ended with a kiss, I would usually ask for a second date after the kiss. Any signal to the contrary and I would not ask for a second date immediately. I would keep in touch and gauge interest before asking.
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Old 11-10-2015, 10:42 AM
 
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Breakfast?


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Old 11-10-2015, 10:48 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Two part question...

1. What should the very next interaction you have with your date be?

2. How long before asking for a second date and how do you do it?

Usually, I just send a text the next day asking to meet again, but I don't think this is the best way to go about this.
Why not?
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Old 11-10-2015, 11:16 AM
 
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Why not?
Let's just say it doesn't have a great success rate
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Old 11-10-2015, 11:20 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Let's just say it doesn't have a great success rate
Mate I promise you ringing them is much better
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Old 11-10-2015, 11:32 AM
 
Location: H-Tine, Texas
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Two part question...

1. What should the very next interaction you have with your date be?

2. How long before asking for a second date and how do you do it?

Usually, I just send a text the next day asking to meet again, but I don't think this is the best way to go about this.
1. Telling her to go home, I like sleeping in my bed only with my dog. Oh, but umm, text me when you get home safe.

2. The next day or two; via text.
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